THE Lusaka Boma Court has quashed a case in a Lusaka woman had sued her daughter’s boyfriend for compensation for virginity damage because the girl already had a child for another man.
Passing judgment, the court noted that the girl, who was eight months pregnant, already had a two-year-old child with another man and thus was not a virgin.
This was in a case in which, Irene Mwila, 40, of Makeni Konga sued Mwiya Lubasi, 23, of the same township for compensation for virginity damage resulting in pregnancy. Mwila’s daughter is Esnart Mwansa, 20, also of Makeni Konga.
Mwila told senior court magistrates Mable Mwaba and Mary Namangala that she wanted Lubasi to compensate her for breaking her daughter’s virginity and impregnating her. She said Lubasi has not shown commitment towards her daughter and their unborn child.
“Efforts to get his relatives so we can discuss has also proved futile as he refuses to tell us where they are. We took Mwansa to his place when we found out she was pregnant but he sent her packing saying his boss did not allow him to live with a girl at the company house.
I have in the process been made to take up the responsibility of buying things for his unborn child,” she said.
But in his statement, Lubasi told the court that although he was responsible for the pregnancy, he was not the first man Mwansa had slept with as she was not a virgin when they met.
He said he found Mwansa with a child when they started dating.
“I do accept to pay for damages but I did not break her virginity because she was not a virgin when we met. She already had a child with another man,” Lubasi said.
And in her statement, Mwansa told the court that the pregnancy was Lubasi’s but that he was not the man who broke her virginity as she had been with another before she met him.
Passing judgment, the court dismissed the case saying the girl had already lost her virginity when they met.
mwamba mutale
September 13, 2013 at 7:55 am
Abaice aba!
Loketo
September 13, 2013 at 8:00 am
The mother to the lady was targeting for more money in the pocket over the virginity which is not even there. If the lady had no kid the guy should have been fixed for breaking the virginity even if the lady had slept with other men before or even she had an abortion before meeting this man. Any way ni pa ZED pano. WALILA MVULA WALILA MATOPE
Mulongoti
September 13, 2013 at 8:21 am
A difficult one indeed ! How can the officers in the courts of law prove that one was indeed a virgin in the absence of children?
Ike
September 13, 2013 at 11:53 am
A Gynecologist would be able to tell. The best job in the world
test@e
September 16, 2013 at 3:42 pm
using his D.I.C.K
WASWA MEMA
September 13, 2013 at 8:43 am
VIRGINS ARE THE GIRLS BELOW TEN YEARS OLD. OTHERWISE ALL THE LADIES JUST WANT TO PLAY IT SMART WHEN NINSHI BALI TULIKA KALE!!!! ATASE VIRGIN MY ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!……..
swine
September 13, 2013 at 9:08 am
Today, a virgin is a girl with one child! Are ther any nowadays I wonder?
katwishi mukwai
September 13, 2013 at 8:59 am
Lubasi must look after his child,please.why sex imwe bantu?
mailoni
September 13, 2013 at 9:26 am
wats so special abt girls virgnity. ifya bupuba akamumuntu bali katomba na zesc pole kuti yapiya ati virgin.
malaika
September 13, 2013 at 9:46 am
nowadays no virginity after puberty because you guys and the weakness of ladies big up to the learned judges.
pompwe
September 13, 2013 at 10:16 am
the mother is a nyandule..how do you teal like that!!
Iam David
September 13, 2013 at 12:42 pm
what would u call that?
MAFUPA YOKOYOKO
September 13, 2013 at 1:03 pm
Amalyashi yakutombana ne fyupo nomba ni business chabe, pipo hv put money first, no wonder marriages nowadays ain’t lasting long, twaloba…
bana kateka
September 13, 2013 at 1:51 pm
tatwishi mwe
muntu
September 13, 2013 at 3:54 pm
Her mother is useless,she got frm first man and wants frm second 1. Nga bunga bwakula dulilakofye!
Chanda Chimbwi
September 13, 2013 at 4:01 pm
The mother to this lady is a crook no wonder her daughther keeps on kupula tubana. Cimayo ulesuungafye tubeshikulu tobe you are so dull.
The Kimbaguist
September 13, 2013 at 9:07 pm
A mother does not understand what ‘virginity’ means! God help us all…
Wilson simfukwe
September 14, 2013 at 8:33 pm
It happened to me,so guys be careful . U can become an ATM..MOTHERS wth their daughters are dirty games,
The Equalizer
September 16, 2013 at 11:35 am
Unless the woman/girl in question is forced to have sex, the virginity damage thing should be abolished. If the girl agrees to have sex then she is also partially responsible for the loss of her virginity, so she should also pay part of the costs in that case.
lubasi
September 16, 2013 at 11:50 am
as usual bembas wanting free monie regardless of how they acquire it
KA GELO
September 16, 2013 at 11:58 am
@Lubasi, bembas are smart my friend, not you people who have no guts to talk to girls or women but resort to sleeping with cows, chickens and small babies.
Ezemwa
September 16, 2013 at 11:50 am
was the girl raped with the first child or yali ni artificial insermination?
Ezemwa
September 16, 2013 at 11:54 am
ba mayo sure nango ni double tobela yachilamo
even the third pregnacy it wiil be the same