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Lusaka Man Dumps Wife for Girlfriend
A LUSAKA man has stunned his wife by dumping her for another woman, after working four years for his in-laws to marry the former.
This was the cry of Fridah Chisenga, 30 of Garden, who said after she stuck by husband Godffrey Mutentwa 37 of chaisa who had no job at the time, he instead went ‘awol’ after getting a job and took off with his new lover.
The dirge came to light in the Boma local court before Justices Abishine Michelo, Linda Tembo, and Pauline Newa in a case in which Chisenga sued Mutentwa for reconciliation.
Senior magistrate Tembo ruled that it is a failed marriage as Mutentwa did not want to reunite with Chisenga.
Chisenga told the court that when she had their first child in 1997, she went to stay with her mother in-law where the toddler accidently got burnt and died.
When she returned to him after the funeral, Mutentwa was so affected by the death that he decided to end the marriage and dumped her at her parents’ home.
As the age-old adage says, absence makes the heart grow fonder; Mutentwa followed Chisenga to his in-laws and begged her to return home and she obliged.
And after being apart for a long time, they were all over each other’s body and she conceived again.
“When I had the third pregnancy, he dumped me at my sister’s place and didn’t check on me for a while but followed me again and we reconciled,” she said.
With passage of time, Mutentwa fell ill but he hid sis condition from her.
One day while asleep, Chisenga said she checked his manhood and found it was eaten up with terrible sores; he had syphilis. But upon recovering, Chisenga said he deserted home.
In his statement, Mutentwa said after paying dowry, he went to serve for four years for Chisenga in line with her tradition.
Later, they went and worked in Mkushi at a certain company where Mutentwa said he observed Chisenga was knocking off early.
“I learnt that she was having an affair with the foreman. I decided to come to Lusaka with her where she again started an affair with a white man,” he sadly said.
He also said when he asked her why she cheated on him; Chisenga said she was in need of body lotion.
Mutentwa said he has been so bothered by Chisenga who has gone to the extent of physically fighting with his mother.
At this point, Mutentwa pensively told the court he used to pray and fast for things to change in his marriage but to no avail hence his marrying another woman.
Upon hearing this, the gallery sneered, while some with mouths agape and shock written all over their faces, shook their heads as if wondering how after prayer someone can engage in bigamy.
Mutentwa told the court that Chisenga went astray, wearing hipsters and denying him sex.
He said he wanted to get permission from Chisenga so she could accept his other wife but she refused.
In that vein, Mutentwa said he did not want to reconcile with Chisenga.
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akanama
October 15, 2013 at 8:46 am
both are problems.elo fipuba.
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October 15, 2013 at 10:34 pm
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October 16, 2013 at 3:39 am
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maps
October 15, 2013 at 9:23 am
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thick sperm
October 15, 2013 at 10:03 am
@ chisenga y bemba like cheating in ther
Marrieges vigololo too much even in night clubs
Even na 5pin tulatomba (short time) bemba ladies
Ni nyere yabwanji muli nayo then too much fluids when havin sex with abemba woman why?
nkamu
October 15, 2013 at 12:23 pm
Walitumpa nge shina lyobe think sperm,when you go out clubing,usanga abanakashi nabale mba pampumi ati ba Tonga elyo bambi ba Bemba?elyo icita ifyabupuba nabo ninshi iwe ilecita ifili right aiii.ukutumpa
DDD
October 17, 2013 at 11:42 am
sorry thicker iwe niwebo ufumya fi simen fingi atase wilatulamfya swaini fitwale uko
soup abodobo bupalo kawama tatwakaye
October 15, 2013 at 10:07 am
ngati chavuta nikuchisiya
bwezikani
October 15, 2013 at 10:13 am
point of correction thick sperm, CHISENGA is NOT a Bemba.
akufo-addo kabamba
October 15, 2013 at 11:02 am
hahahahahahahah we can not get real news apart from this trash nonsesical type of stories.
prophet Malik
October 15, 2013 at 11:23 am
Iam sure he was given good sex
nkamu
October 15, 2013 at 12:25 pm
Good sex ne cikala icabola.efyo fiwama kuli imwe?
Xiexie
October 15, 2013 at 11:23 am
Ahhaaa!Mmmm syphilis and u damp yo wife for new one?How do we know the causer of STI?And u pretend to be a clean?How safe is the new girlfriend u are bonking?Come back to your former wife and reconcile.
miss jetsetter
October 15, 2013 at 11:25 am
kwati pali nechupo amafi yekakeka!
Fridah Chisenga must be celebrating for getting a freedom card. Now she can wear what she wants when she wants….at 30 years of age she can get any man only this time aim for a nice rich man.
Today i found 830 profiles of Zambian lady’s aged 18 – 59 looking for rich muzungu’s maybe Fridah will make number 831.
Wgk
October 15, 2013 at 11:37 am
Chisenga mu lala thick sperm naiwe.She is 30 & her first pregnance was in 1997,am buffled.
chris
October 15, 2013 at 1:01 pm
the man is hopeless and he should not think he has the whole world. lets not be unfair to the women and think we are the the best.that man will suffer and am praying for him big.
matanda
October 15, 2013 at 1:01 pm
This may be a case of pre-marital sex. Young people need to know that premarital sex is not good for them. Later in life, individuals who engage in pre-marital sex end up with relationships outside marriage and bring diseases in their homes.
Young people should know that a generational change is necessary. That change is for all young people to have love relationships based on common interests, goals and values by keeping sex out of these relationships. Sex should be reserved for marriage.
Just like cooking a chicken which has ingredients of water, salt, spices, tomato, and onion. Without one ingredient such as onion, the chicken will still be cooked!
So keep sex out of the so many common interests, goals and values and you will lead a happy married life!! We love you young people and keep your dreams high!!!
Talibani
October 15, 2013 at 2:00 pm
I said the other day that bemba ladies ar prostitutes. U can nw prov she got pregnant at 13 and started sex at 10. Ba bemba che kaya. Am not a tribalist but ba bemba bali nyele kuipa
Papa Josh
October 16, 2013 at 1:10 pm
Chisenga is not a Bemba name please we beg…
Bon
October 15, 2013 at 2:28 pm
Ba Chisenga muli cisushi sana. Ukulekana kwa FIPUBA mwembwamwe yamucila, ukuomba kumbi kwamipesha amano. Limbi ico mwasenda nomba ifyo ifimenshi cisunda malwele yekayeka imwe ati kulowa- ubune mulesebanya aba Lala ba wesu
student
October 15, 2013 at 2:43 pm
@ OBSERVERS, IT IS A PIT THAT ALL THE BEAUTIFUL ADVICES MOST OF THE AFFECTED PEOPLE WHO ARE THE OWNERS OF THESE STORIES DO NOT HAVE ACCESS TO INTERNET, IN ORDER FOR THEM TO READ THE VIEWERS VIEWS. STOP WRITING GEN TO REV.
iLLuMiNaTi
October 16, 2013 at 11:22 am
ma rubbish!
Eshu the Comfuser of men.
October 16, 2013 at 12:15 pm
todays girls /ladies rush for sex and material things in the end they discover that they chose a wrong mate hence they give sex to anyone with mane and deny there mates sexual rights this is the reason marriages are failing no love atall
chize
October 17, 2013 at 2:54 pm
Nebo ndimu Lala, sombi tukupapo umwanakashi wakwesu bamfumu, ni Mbwa.