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My Wife Is Pregnant For Another Man Because I am Now Paralysed
Dear Editor,
I am a male teacher. I married my wife who is a house wife in 1998 and together we have 3 kids. I have had a problem after I suffered a stroke in 2008, and got paralysed from the waist going downwards. As a result I cannot function by bedroom duties at all. I am unable to have sex with my wife- not even for a milli-second. For five (5) years now I have had no sexual relation with my wife because i am unable to function even though I want to.
Now the issue is that in 2013 last year, I discovered my wife had been cheating on me. She is currently 6-month pregnant for my friend (not a teacher). What should I do? To sue or forgive my friend who says was trying to help me to avoid my wife divorce me? Divorce or forgive my wife who says she got pregnant because I was not doing my job and that was an alternative. I still love my wife and she says she loves me too only that it is circumstances. I want we keep kids together but I am in an arkward situation as I have become a laughing stock in the the compound for things beyond my control. I am told by some people to divorce her and that it is my fault to have allowed it to happen. How true? But if I dont divorce her for how long will she stay without sex from me or other men. Or is there anything else I can do to keep her busy as a wife? ADVISE!
NAME WITH-HELD
Note: ARTICLE EDITED FOR CLARITY
Posted by
Mafi
April 1, 2014 at 9:10 pm
Mafi Yobe ci iyeeeeeeeeeeeee
Mpongo
April 2, 2014 at 11:18 am
Forgive
katele
April 2, 2014 at 11:50 am
the answer is with you coz u know how much you love your wife.
chikasa village
April 2, 2014 at 12:27 pm
My brother since you can’t perform your bedroom duties,it’s better you just advise your wife to be using condoms cos she might contract hiv…Mulekeffye balemutomba cos you can’t
chazin jones
April 3, 2014 at 1:26 pm
yo wife cant live without sex. if her having sex with other men is fine with then keep her if its effecting u then divorce her coz u ill die slowly
Tumfweko
April 3, 2014 at 4:01 pm
Divorce her, she is a disgrace to your family……….
fchibs
April 4, 2014 at 9:00 am
My friend leave every thing un to God.Every situation has a solution.
Please allow God to intervene and pray about.Nothing is impossible with God.
Remember that what your wife is doing is adultery which is punishable biblically.What ever which has been written in the bible comes to pass.The wages of sin is death.Mark my words your time is coming for you to rejoice
milandu
April 4, 2014 at 10:33 am
pray to the Almighty God to heal you.