Young girls are dating old men most probably because of the financial security the older men provides. We are not saying it’s wrong. But for those teenage girls in college, there are many good reasons why it’s not appropriate for a college teenage girl to date a rich old man or sometimes called sugar daddies.This article is to guide blooming teenage college girls from falling into the trap of sex hungry sugar daddies out there
1: You Can Contract Sexually Transmitted Disease (STDs)
What is the guarantee that you are the only one your sugar daddy is dating? You maybe his number 100th sugar baby. You are highly like to contract sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, syphilis and even AIDS.
2: You Will Soil Your Education
You can become addictive to your sugar daddy. Why? Sugar daddies know perfectly well how to keep you captive for their sexual gains. They will spoil you with all the good things you want. In a way they divert you education focus to accumulation of materials wealth. Why not focus in your education and earn your degree and you can have those material possessions from your own hard work and sweat. Nothing is more satisfying than those who do that.
3: Spoil Your Reputation
Bad thing don’t remain secret forever. Sooner or later someone will find out your little dirty game you have been playing. When that happens, you will be the center of discussion in the corridors, in the mess, in the streets, in class. Too bad because news of bad things travels from mouth to mouth like wild fire than that of good things. You will be known as a girl who sells her body as a sex commodity in return for a rich old man’s money and other possessions.
4 Kill Your Potential
The time you could have spent studying to be the best lawyer in the country is spent entertaining a sugar daddy for money, beer and pleasure. More time you spend with the sugar daddy means depriving yourself from doing better things to better yourself. An athlete who wants to be the best in his event spends countless hours in training to reach his dream. Practice brings out your potential. We will soon talk about potential.
5: It Is Ungodly
To the Christians, it is against biblical principles to have sex outside marriage. So if you are a Christian, it is not right to have sex outside marriage because obviously you are not married to the sugar daddy. To the sugar daddy, he commits adultery when he has sex with you. This again is against the moral principles of the Christians.
6: Time Wasting
You are only wasting your time. Sugar papa steals your study time, your project time and even time you could use in finding a potential date who can be your future husband. More likely your sugar daddy will have a legally married wife and children. What makes you think he can walk out of the marriage just like that and marry you? He has to do a lot of explaining to the courts if he wants to marry you. If you think he is wasting his time, stop! Look carefully. Is it really him or you who will lose big time if you fail your semester exam, get pregnant or contract a STD? Think carefully.
7: You bring disgrace to your family and friends
How will your mum, dad and brothers and sisters feel if words broke out in the neighborhood that you are dating and even having sex with a rich old guy for money and other possessions? After bringing you to where you are in college you decide to spit that shit on their face? You think about this very carefully my dear friend.
8: You become a failed investment for your parents
You parents obviously spend a lot of money from your conception to where you are now. Because they wanted a brighter future not for them but for yourself.Now for you to blindly disregard this and date a sugar daddy that is more likely to do you harm than good is a total waste of time and money from your parents. Education in PNG has become very expensive lately. Little money your parents save goes into your education so don’t fail them by dating a sugar daddy.
9: You Will Contribute To Break A Family Apart
Mot sugar daddies have their wives and children. Him asking you out doesn’t mean it is ok for you to date him. Even to the extent of having sex with him. It is legally wrong and if found you can be charged for that. It is ethically wrong for you to foster a sexual relationship with someone who is married and has children with women who are his legal wife. If the wife finds out, you can be bashed up and even killed. You could be the next person stabbed to death by the wife of the sugar daddy you are dating. Sooner or later, someone will find out and your sugar daddies family will be broken apart. Children will be scattered. Lives will be lost. Simply because you didn’t do your part by standing on ground of sound moral judgments and saying no to the sugar daddy.
10: You Become A Prostitute
By the way who is a prostitute? Someone who exchanges her body for money. Are you not doing the same? After having sex, the sugar daddy gives you money doesn’t he? You will say “But Ian, that money isn’t for sex, he just gave because he loves me” Fair enough. But if you refused sex to him, would he be so pleased and kindly give you a lot of money? As long as there is money generated in exchange for sex, it becomes commercial activity whether you see it or not. At best, this activity appropriately identifies you as a prostitute because you knowingly or unknowingly trade your body for sex.
Finishing words
Real life is out there. Don’t rush for money and axe your young life. You will see other equally aged young women married to handsome young men and you will envy them. Don’t rush. You don’t wanna be bogged down with a wrinkled rich old man with lots of money. Hope you found something important in this article.
By Emma AKA Bashi Chitemwiko(
Ba tunfweko,you are even saying,we are not saying it is wrong.
It is not Just right for them to date old men. In other words its wrong….
Good article though.
It is not ba Tumfweko who wrote the article. Blame it on the writer “Bashi Chitemwiko”.
The biggest problem is that the competition that these young ladies get into in college can not be sustained by their parents or their allowances. And once they taste the oldies’ clutch in attention &spoiling, they fail to turn back to reality until its too late.
man i was jus chaffing a ka sugar baby last night but jus after reading this i think its best i stick to my wife and not mess up someones daughters future coz honestly i was never going to marry her.
Sugar daddies screw peoples daughters. Sugar daddies daughters are also screwed by other sugar daddies. Its a circle.
rubbish basic
think wise next time when post you comment
Sit at a mall long enough and you’ll see that the whole society could care less about reputations, religion, the future or such stuff. Designer clothes, houses, cars, food, music and dance is all people want. Men/Boys are becoming homos, girls/women are being fvcked in excange. Quid pro quo. Scholl means nothing on an empty stomach. Ask maslow!
The girls tits in the picture are out. Cooooooooool!
The picture is misleading, is that girl being bonked in the presence of other people? The sugar/bitter daddy also looks impoverished with no choice of gentle dressing, the colours of the shirt and tie leave so much to be desired, any way, money really blinds these poor girls to realities.
Abaiche aba ma HULE fye…nensoni shalipwa!
This generation is worst than that of Loti & Noah.Even parents who are supposed to be teaching children manners & protect them are the ones worsening them. GOD help us on our own we can do nothing.
i agree, they are misleading by example
ukutemwa abakulu mukalapya impyakusu baiche no ukukota bwangu fye pliz pretend not to 4get your mothers morals
Hule ni Hule,bt please let’s think about the consequences before we act.1 round(sex) will make you safer for the rest of your life when get HIV/AIDS,remember AIDS is REAL.
Talking about the oldest profession. The girls are laughing all the way to the Sugar Daddy.
Ka Mudala kena kaleumfwa bwino imwe muli busy ukulanda landa.
SUGAR DADDIES MUST BE JAILED LIKE KANENE COZ THEY FUCK EVEN TUMA GRADE 7s JUST COZ KALI NA POTENTIAL OF TAKO AND HIP
bati ka gelo pali foto, kalemoneka tombembo