I am so confused and didn’t know where else to go with such a tough decision! I will just give you the main details and maybe you could help me out. I have been married for almost 2 years to a perfect husband.
I trust him with all my heart. He does almost everything a wife wants. We do have some difference in some areas in our marriage but other than that all is perfect. My husband and I also share 3 children together. My husband has a good friend I will call ‘Jim’. I have known Jim ever since I met my husband. About 2 years ago I started feeling an attraction towards him but never revealed it to anybody.
Some time ago, we were all out together and Jim and I both had too much to drink and began to discuss this mutual attraction. After that night nothing more was ever really said. Last weekend, we were all hanging out again and Jim and I started talking about our feelings again. Saying that maybe we should just sleep together and then maybe the whole thing would go away since we will know what it would be like, (to make matters worse, he is also married with children). We continued to joke about this throughout the night. Yesterday he stopped by to see my husband but he wasn’t here so we started talking.
We discussed how if nobody knows, then nobody can get hurt. We also discussed consequences and many other things. I know it would be immoral for me to cheat on my husband, but what do I do with these feelings? I am not a bad person, I have never been a cheater! We made plans for a ‘date’ today while my husband is at work.
The more I have been running this through my head the more I realize how much is at stake. Should I do it once and then maybe that will kill the curiosity? Or just tell Jim that we just can’t do it? I guess I know what I Should do, but honestly tell me what you would do in this situation.
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Waba ichinyo.
waba ichinyo indeed
You need deliverance in JESUS mighty name.Pliz see a man of GOD for PRAYERS.
Nana..nana..nana.. Wimufisa umwebe efyo uleufwa tecintomfwa iyo citemwikofye afwaya.
The first thing u should know is that u are a fool.Secondly there is no truth in u,thirdly u know the truth dip down yo heart & lastly folo yo heart and abov all b strong to bear the consquances.U wil never manage to put off the fire u are trying to lighton.
foolish woman
Am sorry my sister for your feelings but your feelings are evo and selfsh before you do anything think about your children go to church and get prayed for.the man is also just the distraction from a good family , he will just sleep with you and leave ! What do you expect pig will fly! Think woman! That persone is the devo! In sheep skin try to talk to your husband about it and aviod that bad feeling becouse it will cost you your happines. Thank you!
If indeed it is true that you feel the way you do then it is true. As we write namutombana kale. Just yesterday I visited a relation whose wife is cheating with his best friend (also married and with children). As we speak he is renting her a house after she stormed out of her matrimonial house following an argument with my relation over a slice of bread. At one time when that so called best friend was almost dying with sickness my bululu’s wife actually went out of her way to convince my foolish cousin to go shift the best friend to their house in order that he may be nursed in the best friend’s comfort who, by the way, even employed a maid. I know another foolish woman who was bonked behind the fridge ku party while the husband danced the night.
Planning to sin? May the Lord deliver you.
So u want us to help u cheat, woman you are just a prositute. Try it and u ll be caught the first time. Think the consequencies of both you and your cheater, your faithful husband and children. Am sure you want to destroy both families u evil woman
Imwe mwebantu,
This woman has said that they planned for a date this afternoon. As we write and try to disuade her from eating the fruit they have already concluded the act. Finish ball. They will never stop until they are caught ready handed. Mukanjeba. I have no idea when they will be caught but they will be caught. The husband will not even be responsible for the next pregnancy because nalingila kale just this afternoon. When the husband knocks off from work she will pretend to be very good nokumupela sana ilya imbi ubushiku even forcing the tired guy to penetrate without an erection. Mukanjeba.
Please do not do that your feelings are just your imaginations and are evil. Tell your husband and avoid that so called husband’s best friend, he is your husband’s best enemy. Umwana wangalila ku bakanshi tawama better to play with my money than my wife. Please in the name of God Be a Wife and not a Knife or else will regret. If you have started this long time stop and be a human being.
Such fictitious stories are not good especially when the nation is grieving the loss of the President.
d0n’t do it please,it will affect your life.
Tawakwata amano, ukesheko elo fikalowa,10 times sweeter than of
your husband such that you will even fail to stop until one day you
will be caught.
Mama In llife u need to learn to let go nomater how strong a feeling is.with sex u will enjoy for a day but the outcome shall teach u a lesson.U ll instead want even more sex from him and u ll not stop till yo husband discovers yo affairs.
APA wise njise nkutombe nabwima saana
do you know his status? and what makes you think you will do just once? you are a bad woman you are not better than Biblical cain.i hate your stinking thinking.
My dear there is power is secrecy. The best way to beat the temptation is to tell your husband. The same goes for men. He might not be the last man you are attracted to and so sleeeping with him is not a solution as you might end up sleeping with all the men you will be attracted to in your life.
Idiot.
Go fudge yourself!
weci liule weeee,u have no feelings and respect for your innocent husband,chichi pengu pengu,upengwilafye bonse abo wamona,kale watampa,you are rooten.just too sad for your husband,very soon he will be HIV positive,poor soul.
inyele ilakushupa sana iwe chinamayo,waba ichiweno
If you will come across another person better than your so called Jim,are you also going to fall in love with him?
Tell your husband about it and tell Jim to tell his wife.Lastly you need deliverance.
Stop drink beer
Stop seeing that Jim
Stay home
if Jim wants to see you tell him you will tell your husband.
Try my advise..
MADAM PLEASE STOP WHAT YOU ARE THINKING AND TELL JIM THAT NO. NO SEX IN FACT YOU ARE BOTH MARRIED THAT IS FOOLS THINKING.
WHAT EVER A MAN PLANTS HE REAPS IF THIS STORY IS TRUE THEN U ARE ABOUT TO CHANGE THE DESTINY OF YOUR FAMILY, WHATEVER YOU WILL DO. OTHERS WILL DO DOUBLE TO YOUR DAUGHTERS AND THE FUNNY THING IS U WILL LIVE TO SEE COME TO PASS, LOVE IS NOT A FEELING BUT A CHOICE AND ITS NOT SELFISH THIS IS NOT TELEMUNDO WAKE UP AND BECOME A RESPONSIBLE WIFE AND MOTHER