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My Boyfriend Advised Me To Abort,What Do I Do?
Dear Readers,
I am confused and need your help. I am a lady aged 25. I have been dating a man for a year plus and we planned to make it official in August but due to unfortunate event we were unable.
Few months ago a discovered I am pregnant and I told him about it. He asked me to abort but after weighing the risks and benefits I declined to do so.
He then told me he is not ready to settle down and have children. It’s best we stop seeing each other. The problem is its starting to show and I don’t know how to tell my family. The man responsible doesn’t want to do anything with the pregnancy and won’t becoming to bring to ma mbale. Please what do I do?
Posted by
Wise Fool
December 28, 2014 at 10:20 am
Manchester Utd 2 Tottenum 1
Shimaini
December 28, 2014 at 11:05 am
Iwe chi Wise fool, umuntu alefwaya solution iwe ulelanda pali fi game. Ninani achingisha kuli ba tottenum?
mm
December 28, 2014 at 11:26 am
too bad.I think that man is married.
mujosah
December 28, 2014 at 11:57 am
Mwaletombana babili ok? Muleshibata
Napaku spermnar,ADVISE next time use
A condom my dear
tutu
December 28, 2014 at 12:17 pm
@wisefool w@ abt game yaba arsenal ninshita nshi?oz falcao playin?
shima farm
December 28, 2014 at 12:44 pm
Better to keep the pregnance the brother did not love you even at first tell your family and forge ahead
figozm
December 28, 2014 at 1:45 pm
just give us the number for easy communication for help.
MERCY
December 28, 2014 at 2:35 pm
My dear fool,when having sex you know there are 3 things involved.Pressure,disease or Pregnancy.You are a fool to even ask such question.Many pipo in this world are looking for a fruit of womb,then you there asking want to do? Decision is yours.But incase you abort and fail to have a child in future,dot blame God.
Mushe
December 28, 2014 at 3:45 pm
Call 256508 tomorrow and leave your contact number with whoever answers the call. Tell them you are pregnant and you need help. You will be contacted and assisted. Be calm
kakolwe
December 28, 2014 at 4:04 pm
@tutu, Gunners game nipa 1700hrs. Coming to this issue, you lady are old enough to s down & raise the umborn child. Mwilafulama-fulama fye thinking to trap a husband with a baby. Most men know women up to ejaculation only. Wait till you find one after your heart.
sad
December 28, 2014 at 4:26 pm
Stupid did you ask us when you were closing your eyes?
Venn
December 29, 2014 at 10:43 am
Ha Ha Ha……….Good Question.
Advise
December 28, 2014 at 7:51 pm
Sister,I call you sis because Jesus loves you. In the first place u had sex or had been having so that is sin. This sin is common among youths. But now if u abort u are commiting another sin which might lead u to death. Ask for forgiveness from Jesus Christ and receive Him s yo Saviour. Keep yo pregnance,that young man is a coward and forget abt him for now but I know some day he will come bak beging. Keep the pregnance and run to Jesus of Nazareth.
sikiza
December 28, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Jst transfer that pregnancy to him so that he can carry.
uncle D
December 28, 2014 at 9:29 pm
U ar vry foolish hw can u ask advise after its to let.Whn u were openin ur legs u were da two of u and u enjoyd alone.Foolish u and u shuld even choose men to go out with.
monk
December 28, 2014 at 11:21 pm
abotion is mada, & your conscience will haunt you.
benny
December 29, 2014 at 6:35 am
Call me on this number how tell u what to do (0973336186)
eugene kunda
December 29, 2014 at 8:08 am
sex b4 marriage is sin,ask God 2 forgive u and keep the pregnance
Chalon'chamano
December 29, 2014 at 8:40 am
Sieve through all that people have said, even when they seem to chide and ridicule you. You will find your answer.
And please remember: Once beaten, twice shy!
geosifat
December 30, 2014 at 9:43 am
tupele no yakwe tumutuke chikala neyobe tukwebe ifyakuchita mulebikapo nama photo tulemimona ifyo mulemoneka.keep that baby