By Chibamba Kanyama
Those women who marry us before we have a stove, a mattress, a car are usually the ones who will stand with us when the sun stops shining. A discerning man should always have capacity to distinguish gold diggers from women of valour, the latter are as hard to find as gold.
I feel extremely sad to read that former Arsenal midfielder and Ivorian international Emmanuel Eboua, who once earned millions of pounds, is now nearly homeless, bedless and has no car. His Caucasian wife from whom he had three children has wiped him clean after the court ruled in her favour following bitter divorce.
In the past 27 years, my wife and iI anchored our marriage on true love, trust, respect, readiness to forgive and friendship. I disappointed her on occasions but even in the heat of temptation, we never allowed material things to be the bedrock of our marriage. Money can be in your account in billions today but evaporate tomorrow.
I wish Eboua ‘recovery’ of his life through his new job. Learning from mistakes shapes us.
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Ba Chibamba Kanyama good to hear words of wisdom from you after such a long time and i take your soothing words to be mine
Good Points Mr Chanda. wishing Emma a quick recovery. A man will fall many times but By God’s Grace and Love, A man will one day stand up. Emma God loves you so much. it is not the end of the world. That Woman never loved you truthfully. Whatever you may have lost this time, it Shall come back to you one day. You worked For it my bro.
Why use Eboue as example we have here in Zed a simular story with one former famous footballer and a Caucasian woman but he never learn!