By Mary
It’s a long one but take your time and read.
LADIES And RELATIONSHIPS .
1. You are testing him to see if he is a stingy man, he’s also testing you if you are wife material. The bitter truth is there is no such thing as a stingy man, it’s either he’s broke or he doesn’t see you as someone worth spending his money on.
2. If after sex there is no cuddling, no kisses, no hugs but you always see him dressing up in a hurry, forget , you are a side chick.
3. Next time you visit your boyfriend at his place, leave your slippers or shoes deliberately at his doorstep as you enter his house. If he takes them inside, you are a side chick.
4. My sister, Please! Stop smoking and drinking alcohol with men, stop sending them your nude photos because one day that guy will dump you and get married to a decent lady then use you as a testimony in church or on his weeding day .
5. Don’t be cheated my sister, you will never see two ladies fighting over a good man. Because a good man will never put you in a situation of not knowing where you stand with him. But if you love two men at the same time, I suggest you choose the second because if really you loved the first guy you wouldn’t have fallen for the second guy.
6. Most ladies are single because a lot of guys are getting everything they want without being in a relationship. Like seriously, how do you expect him to marry you when you are already
giving him the benefits of a husband.
7. Men are different just like women, but 75% of good guys that never cheat are the ones you see in “friendzone” and “brotherzone”. These guys know everything about you and they want
nothing but the best for you, but the sad thing is you ‘ve been blinded by the words “type” and “class”. You just want your crush, well it’s your choice, but I must tell you that the guy you are crushing on has other ladies crushing on him, probably he too has a crush on another lady.
My friend, don’t be too emotionally attached to a man unless he’s into you otherwise one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.
8. If he says he loves you, let him prove it because love is not a noun to be defined but a verb to be acted upon. Never beg a man to be in your life if you text, call or visit him and still get ignored, walk away my friend , It’s not pride but self respect. And if he treats you like an option narrow his choices by removing yourself out of the equation.
9. My sister, don’t play around with a man’s feelings if you have no intention of developing a relationship with him, heartbreaks destroys people and creates monsters. Take care of yourself, look good and be happy, but don’t overdo it, don’t kill yourself trying to look expensive because most average guys don’t even know the difference between Brazilian hair and goat Hair.
10. Most men can take advantage of a woman once they realize she has nothing valuable to offer in the relationship other than sex.
Therefore, if as a woman you are financially unstable, marriage my dear sister should not be your priority rather find something to do, be a career orientated woman and in the end men of substance will notice you. I’m talking about real men here, men who work hard, men who hustle, men who are doing the best they can to create a better future for themselves. Not these liabilities who are always broke, still a
dependant, no ambitions, no plans, stays online 24/7 using free Facebook0 and spends most of his time watching Football in other people’s homes.
Be the kind of woman a man would be proud to introduce to his parents.
Lastly Be a supportive figure in the success of your man . Guide him where he sees no way.
