She told the court that her husband, Danny Siamaleki, never used to take off his clothes when they are having sex and that he would only pull down his trousers. Lungu complained that she found her husband’s behaviour to be odd because she was taught that they are supposed to remove all their clothes when having sex. She narrated that her husband is a rough man in bed and that he does not care whether he leaves her with wounds or not.

Lungu also complained that her husband at times forces himself on her without putting her into the mood of having sex. She was testifying in a case in which she sued Siamaleki, 40, for divorce on grounds that he does not support his family. The two got married in 2002 and they have five children together. Lungu told the court that problems in their marriage started just after they got married.

Lungu told the court that her husband does not support his family and that he at times leaves a K10 for her to buy the relish. She also complained that her husband does not support his children to school. Lungu asked the court to grant them divorce so that she can be protected from his ill treatment. But Siamaleki refuted his wife’s allegations and accused his wife of having a boyfriend.

He complained to the court that his wife tells him that she has a boyfriend so that she can know how it feels like to have sex with another man. Siamaleki also asked the court to grant them divorce because he does not want to be infected with HIV due to his wife’s promiscuity. Kalulushi senior local court Fredrick Ndhlovu granted the couple divorce after the court proved that Lungu was unhappy in her marriage. Magistrate Ndhlovu also ordered Siamalek to compensate his wife with K5000 by K150 monthly instalments.

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Yesterday my wife told me she’s nine weeks pregnant. She’s on the pill, but accidents happen. She said she wants to carry to term and give the baby up for adoption. Naturally, I was surprised by the news and her change of mind. I asked her if she considered getting an abortion. She said she had, but she doesn’t want to because she feels a bond to the fetus. She told me she has been researching adoption and learned that the local adoption agencies only accept birth mothers who are okay with having an open adoption. I told her I wasn’t really comfortable with this and asked her if she would have an abortion. She started crying and spent the night at her sister’s place. She wont answer my phone calls.

I’m uncomfortable with this for a few reasons. I was adopted a birth and my adoptive parents weren’t the best. I know this isn’t the case for everyone who was adopted, but I can’t help but have a negative view about it. A few years ago I tried to find my biological parents to learn my medical history, but I couldn’t. I was sore about it for a little while, but it doesn’t bother me anymore. My wife is aware of these points.

I just don’t want to pass on my genes because they’re essentially a mystery to me. I also don’t like kids. My wife said she actually would prefer to keep the baby, but she knows I wouldn’t want to; so she said having an open adoption sounded like a reasonable compromise. I understand why she thinks that, but I still don’t want to have any biological children, regardless of how much/little I would be involved in raising him or her.

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Byta FM Court Beat Journalist reports that Sylvester Kakumba is in this case claiming Thirty Thousand Kwacha compensation for marriage interference from Sonani Mukuni for allegedly sending love massages to the plaintiff’s wife.

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I have two lady’s who are both pregnant for me but I don’t know what to do, I don’t work .

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The woman sought divorce from her husband at the Shariah court in Fujairah because his love was too much for her to bear.

“He never yelled at me or turned me down,” the woman, a Gulf national, told the court.

“I was choked by extreme love and affection. He even helped me clean the house.”

He sometimes cooked for her and there were no disputes in their year-long marriage, she said.

The wife complained that her life turned “hell” because the man was so kind to her.

“I long for one day of dispute, but this seems impossible with my romantic husband who always forgave me and showered me with gifts.

“I need a real discussion, even an argument, not this hassle-free life of obedience.”

The husband said he did nothing wrong. “I wish to be a perfect and kind husband,” he said.

She once complained about his weight, so he went on a strict diet and exercised to get back in shape, only to suffer a fracture in the leg for his efforts.

The husband asked the court to advise his wife to withdraw the case.

“It’s not fair to judge a marriage from the first year, and everybody learns from their mistakes.”

The court ordered the adjournment of the case to give the couple a chance at reconciliation.

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He told the court in his evidence in a case in which he has been sued for divorce. “Why should I buy food for someone who said has lost interest in me? She used to sleep with her clothes on and always slept on the sitting room whenever I asked for sex,” Miti said.

He told the court that Mwanza went for family planning without his consent on grounds that she can only conceive in 2022. Miti said he went for another woman because he could not handle sexual starvation for a long time.

“I still love my wife and I am willing to take her back if only she can change her behaviour. I don’t want us to divorce. All I am asking from her is to change,” he said. And Mwanza earlier told the court that problems in her marriage started in 2017 when Miti stopped buying food at home. She said her husband neglected his family when he went to work in LusakaWest. “He always gave me excuses whenever I called him to ask for support. He always told me he was broke.

He could only send me K200 and expected me to pay rentals and buy food,” Mwanza said. She said she only discovered later that her husband married another woman following a tip-off from a neighbour. Mwanza told the court that she no longer loves her husband her decision to divorce him. The court granted a free divorce on grounds that both parties contributed to the breakdown of the marriage. Miti was ordered to give Mwanza K 200 for child maintenance, effective July 30

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Mushinga told senior local court Magistrate Leortina Zaloumis sitting with Magistrate David Mubanga and Magistrate Margaret Sankalimba that in April this year, Chimbaya’s wife went to his house around 06:00 hours. He said he was surprised to see Majory Mwewa standing by his door.

“I knew Mwewa as my customer but I was shocked to see her at my house early in the morning, holding a food warmer full of roasted groundnuts and cassava,” he said. “I accepted the food and she spoiled me with groundnuts and cassava on several occasions until I slept with her. I had sexual encounters with her on several occasions,” Mushinga said. He said he did not know that Mwewa was married and that one day, he was surprised to see her in the company of her parents and her husband.

“I impregnated her and I paid admission fee but she did not tell me she was married,” he said. And Chimbaya said he married Mwewa in 2011 and that the two have two children. He said this year, his wife suddenly changed her behaviour and started acting strange. “My wife stopped sleeping in bed for five months but I was shocked to discover that she was pregnant,” he said. Chimbaya said he never touched his wife but she is four months pregnant. He begged the court to order Mushinga to compensate him for sleeping with his wife.

And Bernard Mwewa, 58, said his daughter is pregnant for Mushinga and that he admitted. He said Mushinga had destroyed Chimbaya’s marriage by sleeping and impregnating his wife. M a g i s t r a t e M u b a n g a adjourned th

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Mwenya narrated before the court that problems in their marriage started in 2015 when his wife started receiving calls in the night. He told the court that whenever his wife’s phone rings, she would storm-out of their bedroom to pick up the call in the sitting room. “My wife always storms-out of our bedroom to pick up a call whenever her phone rings,” Mwenya said. He narrated before the court that his wife is promiscuous that she once admitted to having committed adultery.

Mwenya asked the court to dissolve his marriage from his wife because she proved that has no respect for him. And Kangwa dismissed the claims of storming out of the bed whenever she receives a call and accused her husband of not being financially supportive. Kangwa asked the court not to dissolve her marriage with her husband because she still loves him.

However magistrate Ndhlovu granted the couple a free divorce after the court found that they both contributed to the breakdown of the marriage.

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Religious Affairs and National Guidance Minister Sumaili’s has banned the South African gay presenter and singer Somizi Buyani Mhlongo from performing in Zambia.

According to Rev Sumaili, Government would not condone a situation where organisations are inviting people with questionable characters that might compromise the morals of the land.
“Every country has laws. Here in Zambia, we have a Constitution that guides

citizens on morals and Christian values. We do not condone gayism . It is a crime and inviting such people means we are slowly accepting the vice,” she warned.

But Rev Lungu argued that the basis of the Christianity religion is not the law of the land(National Constitution).
He reminded Rev Sumaili that the Bible says that Jesus never condemned anybody who came to him but rather welcomed and transformed their lives.
He said Rev. Sumaili, being a Christian, must differentiate between being in the world and being in heaven.

“When the Church has no power, when the Church is void of authority of the Lord Jesus, we tend to resort to the means of fresh to sort out problems which is very wrong. Remember the teaching of the Bible that Jesus never condemned anybody who came to him. The only difference is that when people went to him, Jesus managed to change their lives. Christians must differentiate between being in the world and being in heaven. We are on this Earth…yes, we appreciate that Zambia has been declared a Christian Nation but it is not automatic that people with questionable characters will become born again. We need to reach out to them so that they can encounter Christ who is in us. The Bible is very clear; it is not for the Christians to judge those who are in the world. You should judge those that are within your Church but even before we judge, we should know that God has given us authority. This is why when you go to TB Joshua’s Church, instead of condemning, he provides solutions so that people are restored to their normal being where they are able to reason properly. If you think the sexual orientation of a brother or sister is a wrong one, do not shun them away, reach out to them so that you can convert them to the Kingdom of God and that is our mission. We are not in the Kingdom to condemn; we are not in the country to condemn,” Rev Lungu emphasised.
He said it is unfortunate that despite numerous appeals, Rev Sumaili has not come up with a Council of Clergies who would give Biblical advice when such matters arise.
“I have called upon the Minister of Guidance and National Affairs to come up with the Council of Clergymen, those that have different theological persuasion so that issues of such matters, can thoroughly be consulted with the word of God to avoid being misunderstood. The basis of our religion is not the law of the land, the Church has a mission to serve the Lord, to heal the sheep, to show cause for not being homosexuals. We are not here with a whip like some religion…to judge or to condemn anybody that comes to Christ. We need to be very careful so that we don’t lose our mission of being in this world. This world is not our home, we are just passing by. I don’t care about that gay individual but what worries me is do I have sufficient power and authority to transform that gay person?” Rev Lungu said.

He emphasised that the Church is not in the mission of judging people of different sexual orientation but to transform their lives.
“… If there are homosexuals out there, it is not our right to condemn them or judge them but our mission is to transform their lives and preach to them that salvation is in the Lord Jesus Christ,” Rev Lungu said.
He urged the Religious and National Guidance Minister not to drift away from the teaching of the word of God and not to create an impression that will make it very difficult for the Church to enjoy meaningfully interaction with non-believers.
“We have an obligation to reach out to the world, to bring the lost sheep to Christ and not to condemn them,” Rev Sumaili said.
But National Revolution Party leader Cosmo Mumba justified Sumaili’s stance of banning the performance Somizi in the country.
“As a Reverend, I don’t support homosexuality and as a party, our position is very clear on the matter…we totally condemn homosexuality. We therefore commend Government for banning that South African gay from entering our country,” Dr Mumba an ardent critic of Rev Sumaili said.

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