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Why Women Think About Sex More Often
Men talk and think a lot about sex while women desire it more often. We explore the reasons…
‘Men think, while women desire.’ Gone are the days when ‘demanding sex’ was considered exclusively a man’s forte. Today women demand sex greater than men. And they have no qualms about getting vocal about it. “I read these funny E-mail forwards that stress on men begging for sex and women denying it. It sounds so funny to me. It’s totally the opposite in my case. While men can have a good laugh over it believing that this notion exists, I literally have to seduce my husband to get him hooked on to the act,” quips production assistant Megha Mehra. And she is not alone. Many girls/women had a similar story.
We spoke to women from different backgrounds to figure out what is making them addicted to sex.
It’s physically pleasurable
Amongst all the other reasons to remain glued to sex, this is the most prominent one. Good sex satisfies your physical urge, which is very normal for anyone to experience. Psychologist Seema Naina opines, “Sex is the most basic need of any person. And I am increasingly getting cases where women are complaining that men are unable to satisfy their physical needs.”
Creates positive feelings about oneself
Ideally, great sex means you are enjoying the sexual act and participating equally. It makes you feel good about yourself, thus adding to your self esteem. Shares housewife Neelam Nehra, “When my husband comes back from a whole day at work and we have our sack session, it increases my self esteem. The very feeling that I am able to satisfy him is a great pleasure. And since I never want to go out of shape to look unappealing to my husband (and other men), it even acts as a motivation to work out and feel desirable.” Wondering why?
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Summariser
April 16, 2012 at 10:13 am
Sex, sex, sivintu i do’t do sex because i am sister.
$Dora$
April 16, 2012 at 10:23 am
@ Zubligo. Pussies are made tight by washing them in cold water and doing kengel exercises.
Musonda
April 16, 2012 at 10:28 am
@TIN TIN nice one. As for the other men that think that if we are not satisfied then we are getting or are gonna get it elsewhere you are damn heads. If you are a failure in bed then that is not the woman’s problem. Try shedding the beer belly and stop turning up home drunk as a a skunk and failing to perform your duties as a man. Learn from this and stop making childish excuses.
Prof; Zick
April 16, 2012 at 10:56 am
Getting married without Jesus is a big problem i have seen and experienced in my own life,we marry demons also woman get married to demons,i mean we are all possessed of demons who gives man the spirit of adulterous whilst married and a woman is given a spirit of unsatisfactory of sex in the house hence going round to sleep with other men,we need Jesus in our relationships,no earthly relationship is perfect without Jesus,allow Jesus to become the chief husbandman of our relationship then will become a new creation and enjoy the sacredness of a blessed marriage/home
Bad Gal
April 16, 2012 at 11:00 am
JOHN M Ulichisushi cheshilu sana ! So waponene kumulu? dnt u know dat de sem pus’ dat dot u on earth niwebo waikushishe? ***** lyobe
Name
April 16, 2012 at 11:59 am
@geofsrice. What do you call yourself wen your walking around with you thingy ‘hard and swollen’..? What do yo mean a pussy is always wet and open.? Biologically, It gets to that only wen aroussed.
jamoka
April 16, 2012 at 12:16 pm
even the wife, onece if she test to another man oh maybe the man have big pennus different with her husband,you found that, the deffenetly the wife who loose respect.God made us differant,the shot,the fat,the sleam.
kaya
April 16, 2012 at 12:36 pm
even you ladies are a problen you go drenking in the name of parting when you get grank you are fuked and finger fuked at the some time well standing the strets then you come home elomulelanda ifabupuba.we know you why put my ass on a dart pussy
baby Mn cool
April 16, 2012 at 1:35 pm
you are supposed to satisfy each other. not one man show. make her in the mood she will obviously respond. not chabe kutwa….!
Witty
April 16, 2012 at 1:35 pm
Sexual perfomance is in the brain.U need to study your partner and communicate to her/him about their need.I have an average dick and I have satisfied every lady I ve bonked.So ladies be free to ask,u re human and your needs need to be satisfied too.
thomas
April 16, 2012 at 2:36 pm
Its not a thing to find a gal exchange wips at all. That is why there is an increase of STIs, AiDs & so many diseases. I think the one who introduce this story mast be banana coz u r like promoting elasticity of imoralities which has no value in some pipoz life. Warning: to such women one day some guys will spay chemicals on ur pot so that u cook well.
GIRL OF LOVE
April 16, 2012 at 2:41 pm
if you love your patner let him know what you went and if her sex perfamace is low,because of sex marriages ends “ku sila so” So woman and man lets be free to ask and takewe are all human and need to be sexual satisfied.
Dick
April 16, 2012 at 2:46 pm
Girls are difrent, my parter doest sim (cum) satisfied, no matter hw may rounds en positons i do,so i hve figured she has an extra large p***y. But wen f*ckng the other girfrnd, the monent i insert my d*ck in her p**sy she changes her breathg in a few minuts she ill squeez en wrap arund me while screemng in bemba ati ”Nalafwa sanseni imwe napapa”, thn i cud respond like ”baby leka nkny**ge iwe haaaa”.it feels good am tellng u.
WOMAN
April 16, 2012 at 3:01 pm
Sex is in the brain very correct. the type of life somebody lives matters alot. Theresome men who complains that there wives do not start it unless themselves (husband) stats it. And some women complains vise versa. However, a good relationship where love flows will always know how to satsfy themselves. because they are in love.
michopo
April 16, 2012 at 3:10 pm
guys, sex is just sweet and simply the best form of intertatinment. enjoy it responsibly. Otherwise, am a guy who knows alot ***. gals get in touch on [email protected] for more data
eng su
April 16, 2012 at 4:00 pm
women,the best way to satisfy a man in bed is to satisfy yr self first.sexy women r appetizing.men if u want to satisfy a woman put her in the mood.caution,it’s not always easy to put her in the mood.single ladies r almost always in the mood n that’s y men perform better at plot 2. not everytime u want to hv sex, the woman z dozing. any dick btn 12 n 16cm can satisfy a fairly aroused woman but u must endure to hv atleast 30min of actual intercourse.
michopo
April 16, 2012 at 4:30 pm
women and gals say something to help us men.
BAZUNGU
April 16, 2012 at 4:33 pm
This is cool!!!
Eugene
April 16, 2012 at 6:57 pm
Women and sex are something complicated.Women are full of pretance.
Doc
April 16, 2012 at 8:02 pm
guyz from z little experience of my marriage life and sex,i think we guyz can have great sex with our girlfriends,wives etc..we just need patience,ecouragement,and technique..let me give u just one position to use to give yo wife/girlfriend atleast an orgamsm each tim u make love :1.use a pallow or two depending on physical proportion over her lower back in the missionary positio.2.start inside of her and scoop her legs over her shoulder.3.now place your hand up under her lower back between her and the pillow.4.lift her up so that as you thrust into her,you are thrusting in and up.finally if you have the flexibility lean forward and kiss her,while u are inside of her,due close physical it is very physical it is very intimate position and kissing makes it highly emotion,if u are a guy that likes romance,then u can tell her how much you love/like her.
Doc
April 16, 2012 at 8:13 pm
guyz from z little experience of my marriage life and sex,i think we guyz can have great sex with our girlfriends,wives etc..we just need patience,ecouragement,and technique..let me give u just one position to use to give yo wife/girlfriend atleast an orgamsm each tim u make love :1.use a pallow or two depending on physical proportion over her lower back in the missionary positio.2.start inside of her and scoop her legs over your shoulders.3.now place your hands up under her lower back between her and the pillow.4.lift her up so that as you thrust into her,you are thrusting in and up.finally if you have the flexibility, lean forward and kiss her,while u are inside of her,due to close physical,it is very intimate position and kissing makes it highly emotion,if u are a guy that likes romance,then u can tell her how much you love/like her.size isnt everthing,small,medium or big..let her come first than follow on.good luck
vagina
April 16, 2012 at 9:06 pm
sex n mankind,indispensble.careful!
Sexy guy
April 16, 2012 at 9:50 pm
Iyeee…. I only liked one coment
mwewa
April 16, 2012 at 11:03 pm
MWALYONAIKA MWEFIMAULE MWE!!!
councellor
April 17, 2012 at 9:00 am
Forgive them father for they know not,wat they do
Mwanamfumu F
April 17, 2012 at 9:03 am
We are all human beings…so no one should laugh one another. The fact is you cant run away from it,whether walifitemwisha nangu iyoo.
freezela
April 17, 2012 at 10:08 am
people sex is an art and it is not the same experience for everyone. just like we are all sensitive on different parts of our bodies it is the same with sex. some women have hypersensitive g-spots so they come much quicker and therefore can go for more sex sooner, then there are women who take long to come and will usually not enjoy sex as much. did you also know that 10 times a woman has sex she will come 3 times maximum that is speaking on average. this is not a general statement. so the truth is sometimes because of the make up of one’s body, weight, height and fat distribution sex may only be enjoyable in cetain positions and its only true that very few men are taught the act of pleasuring a woman. the concerntration of such lessons has been focused on the womenfolk. you will not find a woman married to a luvale man who grew up in the village hjas gone through the mukanda comaplaining of such things. these men are taught all these things that am talking about.
problem with most of you men is you think by watching utuma porn ninshi you know all there is to know about sex and how to pleasure a woman.
so all of you that are being vicious and name calling pls be quiet. you are just showing how ignorant you are.
Nadino
April 17, 2012 at 11:58 am
@ Mwebelepo u’ve hit straight to the point, ba gun aka color kabo kankubala elo na skill tapaba u need deliverance from TB Joshua
cycle juan mata
April 17, 2012 at 11:59 am
sex sex sex sucks
Nadino
April 17, 2012 at 12:22 pm
Ka Gun ati overused???????? Were did u see that? Our great great grand mothers used to have 14 children all by the head & stil satisfy their men. Dick aint nothing on vi jay jay
samz
April 17, 2012 at 12:49 pm
this is cool though some comments are not palatable.
kaya
April 17, 2012 at 2:11 pm
tamumfwa bonsefye no one tout you were to put your hands
henry
April 18, 2012 at 10:33 am
Zonama zimenezo. Akazi ali slow when it comes to sex.
Malawi
LADY J
April 18, 2012 at 10:44 am
I no longer think about it because most men are selfish and a bore in bed!!
Zeb Mpinganjira
April 18, 2012 at 11:37 am
Son women enjoy it more?? So why do they make us pay for it, even in marriages we know we pay, except it is long term contract and conditions are flexible, Pay As you go, if you like!!!
Come to think of it, they are suppossed to be paying us for it???
Carolina Rodriguez
April 19, 2012 at 7:51 am
Ohhh Nevers Mumba .fcuk me
noman
April 20, 2012 at 8:48 am
mamamama i wish i could read womens minds !!!!!!!
hussen daka
April 20, 2012 at 12:30 pm
Men and Wemen
Let us face the facts a woman is like an electric cooker you turn it on, will take 20 hrs to get hot and when it gets hot it will take another 20 hrs to cool, but MAN IS LIKE GAS cooker turn it on its boooom when you finish that is it when your dick goes down that is it with some wemen you not even use your fingers the sernt down below there uups!dazs so it is not easy to satisfy so wEMEN, You ask them they do not know even how to satisfy themselves.
ZED DUDE
April 23, 2012 at 11:07 am
Lady j, Plz try me! Am a NGONI bull.
Pontino
May 2, 2012 at 5:57 pm
There is nothing to blame! They are to be…..
Pontino
May 2, 2012 at 5:57 pm
There is nothing to blame! They are made to be…..
nice
July 20, 2012 at 12:18 pm
come on gyz let satsfy these chicks at least she goes for three 3 organism much beter
TREU MAN
August 30, 2012 at 5:06 pm
ok thats good,
bat **** it.
DB
September 6, 2012 at 11:24 am
Kuzuna kwa sex….y shud u wait 4 samone….each one 4 himself mudala.
ySFeHg
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