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My Brother In law Aged 45 Wants To Have Sex With Me
Dear Editor,
Please don’t disclose my Id. There is something I want to share with your readers that has been making my life miserable. I’m seeking advice.
I am a girl aged 18 years and I had just been accepted at CBU( copperbelt University)to study medicine. I had 7 points at Grade 12. I am initially from Kasama.
The problem is my brother in law who is an engineer.
When I was processing my papers at CBU I was staying with my sister in Kitwe. Now her husband has been on me for sometime now, he wants to have sex with me, he has on several occasions stormed into my room while I am either sleeping or dressing demanding for sex.
One day he stormed the bath room while I was naked and demanded for sex, he usually goes for work around 06: 00 hours, meaning I would be up by 05:00 hours to prepare food and water for him, during this period he would be all over me wanting to touch me but I would either run away from him or threaten to scream.
One day around 14: 00 hours my sister was away at the market, we were the two of us at home plus his son. He chased the son aged 8 years to go outside and he started watching a porno movie, when I was passing through the sitting room to go outside he held my hand and forced me to sit next to him to watch the porno movie but again I threatened to scream and I left.
He sent me an SMS saying “Your sister (his wife) since she is pregnant, she produces a lot of water from her vagina and I don’t enjoy sex so I want to be having sex with you and you will always be having money in your pockets.”
I have these SMS with me and after I realized that it was becoming too much, I had to run away from Kitwe.
I told my mother who is a nurse in Kasama and my brothers and dad everything what her son in law has been doing, she was and she is still shocked but she advised that we must not inform my sister who was then pregnant saying her (blood pressure)BP can easily go up and anything can happen.
True to my mother’s words, my sisters BP went up during delivering, she almost died. She had to undergo a lot of medical requirements when giving birth.
People my brother in law would around 03: 00 hours call me or send me SMS to go to the other room or sitting room so that we can have sex, it was just too much.
Recently, I visited them, they are keeping my cousin who is 17 years old, I asked her if my brother in law has been doing the same to her, she said he has been doing the same but that she warned him that the entire family knows his behavior and that we no longer respect him that is how he stopped.
I overheard him on the phone talking to a woman saying “ you must come to Kitwe, I will book you a room and I love you very much”. Here are my questions, did we make a mistake by not telling my sister about her husband’s behavior and could it be that he is seeing another woman?
My mother has maintained that we must not tell my sister about this issue. I still have the SMS’s he has been sending to me and I am not comfortable with my brother in law any more.
Thanks in advance.
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on October 6, 2012. Filed under LATEST NEWS.
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Dodo
October 7, 2012 at 6:12 pm
So this engineer screws the sis,then the cousin guess the mom in law is next it like a food chain
ENVELOPED
October 7, 2012 at 6:19 pm
1ST
-MEDICINE IS OFFERED AT CBU.SO WE NOW KNOW THE CALIBER OF MOST ADVISERS HERE.THEY CAN’T EVEN GOOGLE A SIMPLE THING LIKE THAT.THEY ARE NOT INFORMED.GO TO THE CBU WEBSITE AND FIND OUT THAN JUST ARGUING FROM WITHOUT.
2ND
-INDEED,THE STORY IS ONE SIDED.THE SIDE OF THE MAN HAS NOT BEEN REVELED.THIS GIRL ALREADY HAS SOMETHING IN HER HEAD.JUST LET HER DO AS SHE PLEASES.
Katwa
October 7, 2012 at 6:32 pm
Very intelligent you are, Enveloped!!
PLUTO, the Greek philosopher once remarked: “The perils of refusing to participate in politics is that you risk being governed by low-grade politicians with no vision.”
so do not allow low grade bloggers to speak loudest.
BOSS
October 7, 2012 at 7:16 pm
Go stay with your parents, you *****!!! Your in- law married your sister whether he is a womanizer or not that is not your business. Why should you eavesdrop on his cell phones’ calls. Go stay with your parents. Life is very expensive. Why should he be feeding you?
The Jackal
October 7, 2012 at 7:23 pm
Ba swine tell your sister what is happening, how do you expect this kinda behavior to come to an end if the wife does not know a thing. Such things do not just die a natural death, you all need to sit down as a family and talk about the problem in that family. It must be brought to the wife’s attention sooner than later. Sort out the man before one gets raped by that monster!
GAZA
October 7, 2012 at 7:47 pm
He will finish all females of your family.Report him to his wife.
chendabwamba
October 7, 2012 at 8:02 pm
This a cooked story. If you are coming to CBU wikesatubepesha ati lecturer alefwaya ukuntomba. By the way if this is your picture, you are quite bad, mulamu obe bulema fye bwangu
jay jay
October 7, 2012 at 8:42 pm
its you who is after yr brothet in law..i wonder wat type of the family de girl comes from
SILVER
October 7, 2012 at 9:20 pm
marriage is between two people the third one is a destroyer.leave them alone but inform your family who should report him to the police if necessary. i wonder what how you responded when he made those attempts to follow you in your bedroom or bathroom.lets hope you have not slept with him because there are two chances either you infected if the man is hiv postive or you are pregnant. if you have slept with well and good run away from that home and go somewhere where you will be safe.go to school and get trained so that you too can have your own home and so do not be influenced by his money and sweet talk he might use to get you in bed, besides you are stiil young. wish all the best of luck in your career.
SILVER – CHIEF ADVISOR
mari-G
October 8, 2012 at 6:14 am
Tel your sister & live that place please
Chewe
October 8, 2012 at 7:42 am
Further to ENVELOPED, this article is a fabrication. The writer requests for anonymity and yet sends through a picture.
Kwasha mukwenu
October 8, 2012 at 7:48 am
Ni MPOKELESHI . Just hammer
mukubwa
October 8, 2012 at 7:57 am
you are a wrong chap,how can a 17yr old sort him out then you with your big pussy fail to sort him out ulefwayafye naiwe why even going back if you know his bhaviour is not okay,uli hule limbi alikunyenga nakale ifibanakashi amano yanono
marie-anne
October 8, 2012 at 8:05 am
MULAMU NI NDIYO……
HOT CHIC
October 8, 2012 at 8:55 am
let your sister know. if she learns of this from another source, she may have doubts about why you kept silent.avoid your sisters home. your foolish in law may even rape you. it notworth it.
HOT CHIC
October 8, 2012 at 8:58 am
let your sister know. if she learns of this from another source, she may have doubts about why you kept silent.avoid your sisters home. your foolish in law may even rape you. it not worth it.
PROGRAME IYA BEST
October 8, 2012 at 9:03 am
Eya bako bane ni down na sana
mynin
October 8, 2012 at 9:09 am
people learn to give good advise, this almost happened to me as well when i was young, silly men do these things for their own selfish reasons – i did not tell my sister, i left that home and my sister never came to know about it – am now 45 happily married with 3 children. my sister never knew and probably will never know that her husband tried to ask me for sex many times and refused. – leave that house stay away and you did well to warn that ****** man – your sisy will definately find out what a monsiter hubby she has later, the way my sisy did – but at least i was not the one who told her she caught him herself – the man and many men that do these things are monister – BE FIRM – LOVE YOUR SIS.
chris
October 8, 2012 at 9:32 am
CBU = medicine iwe be serious
Bolingo
October 8, 2012 at 9:43 am
More money in your pussy. This is not news..
shi Mine
October 8, 2012 at 10:07 am
people be updated with current affairs, yes medicine is now being offered at CBU as well as bachelor of dental surgery…. noti ifya ku la shuta shuta fye umwaiche give advise, she is only 18yrs old.Am an Engineer and am embarrased, the chap should be de registered from the Engineering Insitute of Zambia if he is even a registered member
http://www.cbu.edu.zm/schools/medicine
GO FOR CIRCUMCISSION
October 8, 2012 at 10:19 am
This is a fabrication….
@ marie-anne- i now know the kinda person you are(ba ntomba ndeya) !!!!
SINYANGWE
October 8, 2012 at 10:21 am
The man is so selfish let him read the bible that’s adultary Exodus 20:11-25 some where else he goner found by him self.Just leave them & tel your sister he is a foor.
jinko
October 8, 2012 at 10:42 am
Bali kalya kale aka….
Skill
October 8, 2012 at 10:44 am
give him!!!
Eveness
October 8, 2012 at 10:59 am
jst tel yo sister olc that pig wil rape u one day.
Early Ejaculation
October 8, 2012 at 11:03 am
THE MAN WANTS KUSANSA, MUPASE MAMPI LOVE, WITH THOSE THUNDER THIGHS
MM
October 8, 2012 at 11:05 am
what did you mean to bring this stories in the Media,better you move to your sister’s house silence,if your sister ask you,give her other reason,the person you should tell is your mum and your mum is going to tell your dad,just in your family.
SHUSHUSHU
October 8, 2012 at 11:40 am
PLIZ, PLIZ MA GAL SHUD LEAVE DAT PLACE U AR IN DANGER, AND LETS HOP TAWAMUPELAPO OTHERWISE TS NOT GUD UKULYATUMULAMU TOBE.
pavel
October 8, 2012 at 11:43 am
Why hiding this issue to your sister?before telling your mum you should first tell you sister.after doing that you even leave the place,because at last you may be tempted.why giving devil the chance?so tell you sister because when she hears that to someone she will think that u are going out with his and she will hate you forever.
lovely
October 8, 2012 at 12:22 pm
young lady leave the couple alone. it will help prevent family disruptions and hurt
kajinta
October 8, 2012 at 1:13 pm
the story is fake, fabricated…yes there might be something of this kind happening in our society but not the way you have brought it……lyashi la pa bwalwa….