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I’m Pregnant For My Married Boyfriend, He Doesn’t Know I’m Also HIV+
“Hi Editor,
Can you publish my story? Use this same email address to write me back if you need more information.
I’m a young lady aged 21 from Kafue.
I was on the street working as a sex worker for about a year and a half until I met this man. I was only doing that to raise money for my school.
This man took me to his place and we had sex. We we never used protection, because he insisted and offered to pay a lot more for going in without protection so I gave in.
Then he told me not to go back to the streets, he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend until his wife who is abroad returned home. Since then he has been sleeping with me just like hi own wife. I got pregnant for him and one day during a routine check for all pregnant women I tested positive to HIV but I have not told him about it.
The man is an accountant and lives a comfortable life and can’t afford to lose him. His wife will be returning from UK in December but I’m not ready to move out because I feel he’s also my husband.
What can I do at this point? I feel so confused and don’t know what to do.
Confused Lady”
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Abigail unza
October 9, 2012 at 1:40 pm
Chikala ali hiv kale and he knew his status thats why he insisted on doing it with out a condom. Bonse muli fimaule! May the good lord protect the woman who probably was sending money from UK to the husband for investment and yet the fool was busy investing it in the prostitutes thighs How sad. On you way to E22 UTH
ADAM TEMBO
October 9, 2012 at 1:43 pm
ITS REALLY A SAD READING, BOTH OF U NEED DELIVARANCY. DO U REALISE THAT U VE SINNED BEFORE THE LORD? PLEASE REPENT AND ASK 4 FORGIVNESS.
lopola
October 9, 2012 at 2:04 pm
eish eish
Nkonde
October 9, 2012 at 2:05 pm
Pipo pipo hey iiiishi! Matters of sex are dificult to coment on simply bcoz there is no referee in the bedroom.whether sh is lying or not its best known to herself.my advise to u tell the man abt your status! He has a right to know.
The idler
October 9, 2012 at 2:11 pm
U are all lost bane.it is the UK wife who left him with a gift(HIV) before she left.She got it from that boss who assisted her get the UK sudy prog.They met in lodges for close to 6months up to the day she left.That guy came to know of his status a year later.The guy is so bitter with his wife’s betrayal is now on a mission of vegeance against women,he wants to infect as many as possible.He was the victim who later on became the villian.so ladies tht guy ali na makeys yakumochali so run for cover.
dnice
October 9, 2012 at 2:15 pm
ubupuba, if you want him to be all yours, just get his wif’s number and talk to her. I guess that will be the easiest way of having him to yourself
mwenya musenge
October 9, 2012 at 2:24 pm
pretty
awee in this world
Chakaka
October 9, 2012 at 2:26 pm
Wages of sin is death. If your right eye causes you to sin pluck it out and throw it away. For it is better to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than for both eyes to be thrown into hell fire. Almost all men in Zambia need to be blind and women deaf!
Mable
October 9, 2012 at 2:29 pm
The man knew tht he is hiv+ for him to screw a hole picked up from the street…who does tht..u should let his wife know abt your status.if she decides to stay with him. Its up to her..
AK47
October 9, 2012 at 2:49 pm
Iwe ndiwe ma offoals ya nkumba.You should have looked for your own desent guy,not stealing then to add salt to the injury you also give the guy HIV.ma offoals ya nkumba!!
BryD
October 9, 2012 at 3:09 pm
Hmm, bwafya sana mwe????? Nefyakulanda kuti fyabulwa.
kagawa
October 9, 2012 at 3:41 pm
This is a rough world,look at the cost of trust
Tinta
October 9, 2012 at 3:46 pm
Tell your boyfriend about your +hiv status and leave him for his wife. Just let him support the pregnancy and the child when it’s born. Remember that what God has put together no man shall put asunder! May the Lord bless you as you make the right decision.
stomfyos
October 9, 2012 at 3:48 pm
Mwefimaulemwe!!!both of you God will punish you.Lets hope the innocent child will come out negative.IFWABUPUBA BAFIKALA
Think tank
October 9, 2012 at 4:19 pm
YAHBA AWE NO COMMENT FROM ME
charitymulwanda
October 9, 2012 at 4:35 pm
May GOD heal our land.In the first place you both shouldnt have been that careless(no protection)with the current situation you tell your man the truth that you are HIV positive so that even the coming wife is well imformed to know what sort of a home she is returning too,once beaten twice shy so just do that and i wish you well may the lord favour you with a healthy baby,above all repent to GOD and be honest always(both of you)
mando*
October 9, 2012 at 4:54 pm
Salvation first
TimZ
October 9, 2012 at 5:55 pm
No normal man wud insist to sleep with a sex worker withiout using a condom. Truly dis man is da one who has infected dis poor girl. He is an accountant & I think he is a ZCAS product where pipo sleep about like dogs.
GAZA
October 9, 2012 at 8:53 pm
Only fools find pleasure in doing ****** things.You are both fools.Nature will sort you out.
oxmos
October 9, 2012 at 9:01 pm
they are both mad and really need God,coz even that woman in uk is sucking white mens penises, who knows! we just all live in ignorance thats the reason of peace coz when you know your wife kisses around you wouldnt let her,just trust God my friends
Firestone
October 9, 2012 at 9:07 pm
This story is a lie!!!!
chris
October 9, 2012 at 10:26 pm
Only hope both of you knew your HIV status when you decided to have unprotected sex. Otherwise its cruel to agree to have unprotected sex despite knowing your status.
Mwila crook
October 9, 2012 at 10:58 pm
Good job please continue licking his dick
Gothan
October 9, 2012 at 11:52 pm
B1tch!
mafinga man
October 9, 2012 at 11:54 pm
when you were doing it you were saying baby you are sweet and now you are + too bad.
The Equalizer
October 10, 2012 at 12:34 am
Young lady, this guy cheats on his wife. What makes you think he wont cheat on you in the same way? Secondly, it is possible to know approximately how long one has been infected. If he takes a test you can tell who got what before who. Thirdly, if there is a child and a disease, everyone involved has to know. It is not your business to tell his wife, but youmust tell your manfriend and insist to him that he tells his wife. If he does not tell her then you may find a way, but first allow him to be the messenger of doom. Fourth, start thinking about ho you’ll raise your kid, not about that illusuion of assuming this is also your man. That is idiotic thinking.
Shauli Yako
October 10, 2012 at 6:49 am
You both deserve each other. Just stay with him so that you can nurse each other when things get phwetetete…
Peet
October 10, 2012 at 8:12 am
Shoking
lenny
October 10, 2012 at 8:38 am
thre both foolish
Barbed Wire
October 10, 2012 at 8:41 am
You are a silly womwn. Now that you are in trouble you are seeking council from us? I am sure your parents used to talk to you about bad behaviour and you never listened. The only real answer for you is that you must repent and change your ways. These problems will not go away, you have to face them.
DOLLAR BILLS
October 10, 2012 at 8:48 am
oh!@thats bullshit,next story pliz.
felix
October 10, 2012 at 8:48 am
you-knew-you-where-dating-a-married-man-and_agreed_not_to_use_condom_why_are_u_comlaing_leave_that_family_aloan__after_all_yu_were_enjoying_yoself
john chilembo
October 10, 2012 at 9:21 am
first you have narreted your story that he found you working as a sex worker for one year.do you sometimes think that maybe you are the one who has actually infected him
Prof; Zick
October 10, 2012 at 9:55 am
Tell him u are HIV positive,he should tell the wife before he can sleep with her she is innocent
BAD BIFF
October 10, 2012 at 10:30 am
wat advice is she asking for!!!u were doing it for money..u hav the money and u take full responsibility of the outcomes…look for your soul coz da devil blackmailed u..
JS
October 10, 2012 at 10:55 am
Dear Young lady aged 21 from Kafue.
Jesus said, “Haven’t you read …that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’…For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate” (Matthew 19: 4-6).
YOU my dear sister have separated a marriage. I advice you do the following:
1. Tell your boyfriend this confession.
2. Tell this confession also to his wife.
3. Leave that marriage alone and let him just support his child.
God will surely bless you for all of us make mistakes and have fallen short of the glory of God. Your marriage with him will be disastrous as it will come with a curse from GOD. GOD BLESS YOU!
BRIGON
October 10, 2012 at 11:39 am
Pay about it and ask for Gods guidance but repentance should be the first step
buga
October 10, 2012 at 11:58 am
***** you’re even showing off tawakwata amano iwe pushii for him to insist on doing it without protection he knew what he was doin (wapelele mu grade shani iwe chikala)
man chisa
October 10, 2012 at 12:23 pm
Its time to dance to your own music tell that guy to go for HIV test before the wife comes back from states other wise the more you keep quaity the bigger the problem.
Moze
October 10, 2012 at 1:35 pm
Lets not judge them but pray for them “Jesus said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone
at her, and no one stoned her instead they all left her one by one.
honset
October 10, 2012 at 2:22 pm
sex workers have sex with “street men”, guards, truck drivers, bakamalasha and then accountants. sure u men cant see thro someones agenda???
man chisa
October 10, 2012 at 2:52 pm
But ndiwe ule utilagiza ka mimba ka ma nsokanda shame
But you are a prostitute you even showing us your abdomen full of warms shame
Chimbwi
October 10, 2012 at 3:40 pm
This is nothing. My wife did the same with a ka boy friend. I divorcing her now.
Mpende
October 10, 2012 at 5:08 pm
Please couples stick to your partners. I hope the wife was not doing the same in UK.
sweet milly
October 10, 2012 at 9:23 pm
its a sad story but not the end of the world. take care of yourself and that preciuos baby. God will make a way but tell your beyfriend your status.
chisapi
October 10, 2012 at 9:49 pm
Why are people assuming the man is positive also? For example, I’ve been screwing sex workers for over 15 years – mostly without condoms and I’m still negative. I watched some of these sex partners get sick and die. But my luck is not your luck. BEWARE.
sean
October 11, 2012 at 6:11 am
remain confused…
amuna
October 11, 2012 at 9:08 am
chikomekome chankhuyu.
sweety
October 11, 2012 at 10:05 am
May God have marcy on both of u . u are hiv and his as well because they is no way he can be negative because u do ur shameful thing without any protection . i pity the wife who does not know anything . shame on uo both with ur ****** lover.
Jubby
October 11, 2012 at 10:07 am
Guyz it aint easy. if it was meant to be that your destiny will be you dying of HIV then thats it. its not that everyone who is infected wanted to be… No. even you pipo commenting negatively have girlfriends and you think you are perfect. the best advise is help these goyz cope and let the wife seek a divorce if she is not infected and the two live together and look after the unborn. By the way TUMFWEKO do yu have rights to the pictures you put on this site. someone may sue just using that picture…