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HELP!!! My Woman Has Stretch Marks And It Irritates Me A Lot
Dear fellow readers,
I’m a young guy of 31 years in love with a 27 yrs old lady. She’s beautiful, down to earth, good cook and good in bed, she does my house chores and got a lot of respect for me.
In fact she’s a wife material though she has a child (daughter) out of wedlock, which she told me earlier.
I’m deeply in love with this lady. I proposed to her and she accepted.
I introduced her to all my family members and they all like her.
But the problem is that, I just discovered she has stretch marks on her arms and breast and the sight of it irritates me a lot.
She also has big tummy which I don’t like..I wonder which kind of wedding gown she’s going to wear with all the stretch marks on her body..
I’m kinda confused right now because I hate stretch mark and big tummy. Please I need your advice on what to do.
Posted by
Mushkarano!!
October 31, 2012 at 9:55 am
Mine has those aswell..Is there any medication for that? Nangu Kwina?
Tom Bar Know Call Cheekalah
October 31, 2012 at 6:31 pm
JUST FLY HER TO SPAIN OR USA FOR SKIN SUGERY.IF U ARE UPND SWITCH TO PF COZ BITTERNESS & HATRED (UPND DIET) INCREASES CHANCES OF HAVIN STRECH MARKS IN WOMEN .
Chama Febie
October 31, 2012 at 9:58 am
Fuseki what kind of help are you looking for we are not God so the’s nothing we can do tupity
Chama Febie
October 31, 2012 at 10:00 am
She must stop beaching are skin,lightening creams increases stretch marks
chingola's finest
October 31, 2012 at 10:00 am
hey dude therz nothn u cn do abt th stretch marks jst stp embracin th thot of hatin them too much..and the tammy luk ok to me, hav neva sin a woman wth a sixpack in my lyf tym.
metal
October 31, 2012 at 10:11 am
bio oil-try it!
Bemila-Defender of the gospel
October 31, 2012 at 10:14 am
Accepting somebody means accepting the very foolish thing about a person.Before I married, I said to myself I need a slim lady- but asked myself-what if she puts on weight when we a married, will I divorce her? compromise is the language that must properly be understood by every couple. What will happen to this couple-the husband is a Tonga and the wife a bemba and they all vow to stick and maintain their tribal principals, will they agree on anything. stretch marks are with almost every lady especially mothers. Unless if you intend not to have a baby.
ൠº°˜¨50 but looks 25¨˜°ºൠ
October 31, 2012 at 12:16 pm
some women who has kids may have a body like a teenie and some without kids may have sagging breasts and stretch marks… chikonkafye umubili…..
Republican 4 Life
October 31, 2012 at 10:14 am
You are too shallow minded dude… at 31 you should be concerned about bigger things than your woman’s hidden stretch marks. and you know it will get worse when she starts to procreate and all right?
Be happy that you have a good woman who can take care of you and be a good mother to yor kids… and find a clever way of suggesting palmer’s lotions and oils for stretch marks… they help a lot.
Lungowe
October 31, 2012 at 11:21 pm
Thankyou you saved me the trouble of commenting by speaking my mind.
Fidel
October 31, 2012 at 10:20 am
get Bio for her from Spar or a chemist. it works wonders
Fidel
October 31, 2012 at 10:21 am
I mean BIO Oil. but for the stomach; sit ups will do the trick and she will even be better in bed..u are just getting a test..
metal
October 31, 2012 at 10:33 am
but you are a fontini. googula pama strech marks na treatment instead of wasing time ukusebanya your wife-to-be pali iyi site! mwashitako natu cocoa butter lotion twama stretch marks olo tu bio-oil mu chemist. as for the tummy, nipa gym fye utuma sit ups mwanashako noku batwala ku hungry lion mukulya ama chips.
can I ask you something? if she is all that you have described and more, why care how she looks? ulefwayafye ukula muchita show off kwati ni model kutu nobe?!
pa bwato
October 31, 2012 at 10:41 am
Reduce on your food intake as a mabwizi you’ll always get stretch marks wen u drop weight. Try na Bio Oil or doggy style
Kiyosaki
October 31, 2012 at 10:43 am
She is not yet your wife yet and you know she is good in bed. Thats fornication my brother. You will never find a perfect woman (in looks or behaviour) because you are not perfect yourself. That woman is just fine please go ahead and buy her a nice wedding dress and enjoy your marriage.
TRUE ZAMBIAN
October 31, 2012 at 10:47 am
MY FRIEND KU LIBE PERFECTO, AND BELIEVE ME
THAT TUMMY WILL BECOME BIGGER WITH TIME
. AT YOUR AGE AM SURE YOU HAVE PLAYED ALREADY
SO WHY THINK ABOUT TUMMY’S AND MARKS. YOU WILL
BE SURPRISED THAT WHEN YOU REMOVE THOSE MARKS SHE
WILL BECOME BLACK LIKE CHARCOAL, THESE WOMEN
YOU NEVER KNOW.
winer
October 31, 2012 at 10:50 am
u hav found another girl and u want a reason for leaving her, why are u mentioning her child its like u haven’t accepted her child. U are an iddiot u fullllish chap. That lady deserves a better husband than an idddddiot like u
mimiz
October 31, 2012 at 10:53 am
ati looking at them irritates me,whats wrong with you,are you perfect in everything,what if she told you what irritates her about you & you realised it isn’t your making,would you throw a party for her,grow up dude,life is too short for petty issues,if i suggest to you what to do you wont even manage,sign her up at a gym at Pamodzi hotel,pass through link pharmacy at manda hill and be ready to spend millions plus billions just for them to completely disapear then you will see you swallowness…..i pity you
ൠº°˜¨Forever★Young¨˜°ºൠ
October 31, 2012 at 12:20 pm
What is “swalloness” kanshi?…………
ൠº°˜¨Forever★Young¨˜°ºൠ
October 31, 2012 at 12:23 pm
SWALLOWNESS? efinshi ???? champita ici buga kwena…
Janet c
October 31, 2012 at 10:59 am
I do wonder what YOU look like yourself!! You probably have a very big beer belly, man boobs and a very small bank account. because if you were rich, you would have taken her for laser surgery and a tummy tuck by now – you foolish man, even your mother had stretch marks because of reproducing you
Lungowe
October 31, 2012 at 11:23 pm
Amen!
nandipak
October 31, 2012 at 11:05 am
just use separate bedrooms and u wont have to see them anymore
Diva
October 31, 2012 at 11:07 am
I have a big tummy and stretch just like your woman. My advice to her is to stop usin very strong creams and go for mild ones. I’ve tried Bio oil, Palmer’s and Happy event they can’t work for the type of stretch marks she has, but try Snail gel get it from Game it works wonders! As for the tummy situps and take her for jogging every mornin and evenin.
juice manure
October 31, 2012 at 11:09 am
You hippopotamus! What kind of help? If the benefits outweigh the stretch marks, there is no need to complain.
doc
October 31, 2012 at 11:33 am
aba ma stretch marks eba lowa na sana walikwata fye ka gelo nakambi kulanda fye noti ati stretch blablabla na belly obviously naumfwa..
savage rogue
October 31, 2012 at 11:34 am
am even failin to comment but it seems this ***** has never seen a man with stretchmarks bfore.naifwebene they irritate us coz i thot only women had them but anyone can hav them and they arent a problem
MQQN
October 31, 2012 at 12:31 pm
good point. I never seen stretch marks on a white man, but bakapoto na ba mwenye with flabby bodies does. Yaiks………………..
Lungowe
October 31, 2012 at 11:24 pm
stretch marks pa ba sungu are bright red and not cute either
kakolwe
October 31, 2012 at 11:40 am
Mwaice (at 31), one wise person said: ‘A MAN GOES FOR THE BEAUTY OF A WOMAN BUT LIVES WITH THE REST OF HER’ There it is. So many years & kids into your lives, you will have discovered better qualities in her. What if U run away from stretch marks & your snoring kills her? Kula bwino!
rex
October 31, 2012 at 11:47 am
skin her my frinde or beter stell. pouil aside on her
Uskomatonta
October 31, 2012 at 11:50 am
where is my comment?
Meswin
October 31, 2012 at 11:57 am
What’s your problem??????? That’s very normal, they’ll disappear on their on.
Bwafya
October 31, 2012 at 12:00 pm
This is a very matured question and I thank all bloggers who have given wise advice to our brother but for those who have brought in politics it’s shame!!! We need to know when to be serious and when to Joke. Most contributors have spoken wise things.
I have also learned from their wisdom. BIG UP BROS & SISTERS!!.
ISAAC
October 31, 2012 at 12:09 pm
you are fool
Dr.D
October 31, 2012 at 12:10 pm
Situps and oil-la-sante is the solution kwapwa,kip the woman and gud lucky.
GO FOR CIRCUMCISSION
October 31, 2012 at 12:11 pm
Ditch her for a better one, i was a victim and now am happy.Imagine…you are not yet married & there are those conditions what more when she is with you in your house??????MISERY
Mushkarano!!
October 31, 2012 at 12:16 pm
Useless…How many will u Marry.Id!ot.
Mushkarano!!
October 31, 2012 at 12:19 pm
Useless..How many will u ditch & marry…Id!ot..
RB Wofunta
October 31, 2012 at 12:25 pm
You are responsible for that as a man and the medication is weight loss and use of snail gel. Try it.
Lungowe
October 31, 2012 at 11:27 pm
I agree with you to an extent but stratch marks appear when one gains weight and also when they rapidly lose weight, so the best solution is that he grow up and either learn to accept her because like him she is not perfect or leave her to find a real man because this 31 yr old child has alot of growing up to do
kunda
October 31, 2012 at 12:28 pm
if she gained weight then loss of weight can reduce them. Creams is new to me but generally they come with changes in weight. try the other things mentioned by others.
Its however not good enough a reason for a dilemma. you can marry one with none today but she may get them later especially after child birth. its a reality of womanhood and am sure one you may have to learn to live with!
kizza ndawula
October 31, 2012 at 12:30 pm
U guy, first visit da gym then to skin experts but u need a lot of patience surely u’ll succeed.
Barbed Wire
October 31, 2012 at 12:37 pm
Stretch marks are a common thing. I am glad that this gentleman found a good partner and strecth marks are not a barrier to happiness. I married my woman when she was slim, now she is a fully grown woman who has given me children and has developed streatch marks too. Do you know that men can develop them too? A good woman is still a good woman, even with streatch marks.
(Q.Q)
October 31, 2012 at 12:37 pm
gross
ngwema
October 31, 2012 at 1:07 pm
Stretch marks,flabby arms,big belly can make good loving
Jabulani
October 31, 2012 at 1:36 pm
That is the kind of woman I have been looking for. Refer her to me.
kase
October 31, 2012 at 1:51 pm
shz good in bed means u have seen her body many tyms y shud stretch marks be an issue now that u hv proposed and she acceptd,are you saying that theres no wedding dress for a woman with stretch marks.grow up and start the wedding prparations.stretch marks can nt be a barrier for marriage
Com Skills
October 31, 2012 at 1:56 pm
Chikala learn to hit the nail on the head,.Who needs to knw about her going to yo family,being good in bed ,accepting yo proposal,having a daughter out of wedlock,good looking,giving u respect and her being down to earth? etc.What did u have in English pa Sugo or form V.Certainly not below 8.
Big-D-Styles
October 31, 2012 at 2:39 pm
just develop the feelling of loving them coz its not her faulty,its not a serious problem all the areas you have explained abt her are cardinal in marriage.continue loving yo woman!
Shi Mumbi
October 31, 2012 at 3:00 pm
ukatupelefye ife ba jeraboz
Vibrosomal
October 31, 2012 at 3:11 pm
For the tummy, tell your wife to do tummy-exercises and for the stretch marks she needs bio-oil.
am a serious PF DIE HARD.
October 31, 2012 at 3:45 pm
***** use google to find answers.dull foolunyemba.
muzolino
October 31, 2012 at 3:50 pm
I WONDER WETHER WALIFUNDWA IWE BOYI.SOME MEN REALLY THNK SUCH MARKS ARE A RECIPE FOR LOVE.BUT ANYWAYS,FORGET NOT THAT ITS NOT HER FAULT TO HAVE SUCH.LOVE TAKES TIME TO HEAL.LOVE HER,JUST!
Raspower
October 31, 2012 at 3:53 pm
i like women with minor stretch marks, they are nice i promise, because i get mad when feel them…
princec
October 31, 2012 at 4:17 pm
i evn remember my R.E teacher at high schol who used to advise not to love specific features on any one b it a man or woman bcoz the moment the u lyk dispears yo love wil to start disapear. so ma advise for u boi is first wen lookn for one to mary the first thing is the heart and the rest are jst to add on. e.g u may love very much ma eyes that u evn opt to mary me,but wat of am involvd in an acdent and ma eyes are affected can u stil love me
Ndime
October 31, 2012 at 5:01 pm
Ladies and gentlemen, this man is simply asking for advice on how he can help his woman get rid of those stretch marks. He does not deserve the insults some of you are hurling at him. To you my friend, my advice is that try the oils that have been mentioned by many respondents to your issue. Also try some exercises as some have put it but you need to be there for her and encourage her not to give up on the exercises. If possible, join in so that she has a partner. Allow me, however, to mention that a lot of women (and men) you see moving around and dressed nicely are also suffering from the same. So it’s not your woman only. Some have it worse, but it is something you can accept and learn to live with. If she is good and doesn’t make you run away from home, believe me she is worth having around. All the best.
Kwa Nehema
October 31, 2012 at 5:26 pm
U need some senses to be pumped in U. 4 U 2 tak her 2 many of yo relatives, that shows dat U kno her 2 well including her nude, how come 2de U’r complaining of these wen in fact the Lady is as at the tym U met, loved her after U had Sex with many tymz then she has started 2 irritate U. U childish ****** so called Guy. U after U’v now seen another Girl U want use that as an excuse *****. Nga wa muleka ukamona
the rock
October 31, 2012 at 6:19 pm
just wait my guy u will also have them when start eating her nicely prepared … have them 2
Tom Bar Know Call Cheekalah
October 31, 2012 at 6:32 pm
JUST FLY HER TO SPAIN OR USA FOR SKIN SUGERY.IF U ARE UPND SWITCH TO PF COZ BITTERNESS & HATRED (UPND DIET) INCREASES CHANCES OF HAVIN STRECH MARKS IN WOMEN…..
another Iris
October 31, 2012 at 6:33 pm
Get real Man. You know there people who would kill for a lady like that. lol
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