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I’m HIV+ and My Man is Negative. Please Advise
Well my story is not fictitious like most stories seem to be.
I am HIV positive and I have been seeing an HIV negative man who has known about my status even before we had something going on.
My man is loving caring and considerate but the challenge I have is that his relatives called me a walking corpse (dead body) and this put me off so much.
Even if the biological parents to my man are aware that am positive and have left the decision to him to decide saying that if he loves me and he is happy with me he can go ahead and marry me because all they want is their son to be happy then they are fine by it, I am still bothered by the way his relative behaved as I am not sure of what could happen tomorrow.
I am thinking of letting go but I can’t stand hurting him because he is one in a million and another thing is I could be expecting his baby. I really don’t know what to do about this and my mother in law has been so loving from the start.
Please dear readers help me will I be unfair to walk away? Please note that I encouraged him to do an HIV test several months after our sexual encounter and it was negative. Lastly, my family hardly likes him. My mother really doesn’t like my man. She tells me I need to get married to a man with a lot of money. what do i do?
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on November 1, 2012. Filed under LATEST NEWS, STYLE.
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GOOD FRIDAY-LUNDAZI
November 2, 2012 at 8:15 pm
YOUNG LADY, U ARE FREE TO GET THE MAN NGATI AMAKUMVELA SUGAR, BUT NGATI SINDIWE ONZUNA,SAKILAKO WINA MWAMUNA AWAWASHA
ashmail
November 2, 2012 at 8:57 pm
being hiv postive is not a barrier 4 you 2 continue being in a relationship with him, if he truely loves you he will take that, remember if you are not infected you are affected.
Judith
November 3, 2012 at 5:49 pm
Being hiv+ does not mean dat you can’t marry death sentence no, you can marry as long as u take measures so dat yo hubby does not get infected hence make sure dat you use condoms daily unless you want to have a child but visit de doctor 4 more advice.
scone
November 5, 2012 at 12:47 pm
go go you are not marrying the relatives but you are marrying your man you love and who loves you and respects your status. its good that his parents they have accepted dash the relatives stay blessed and stop worrying.