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If I Get A Gal For BJ Only Would it Be Cheating?
From married,
I want your reader’s perspective on this issue. I’ve been married for 3 years to a beautiful woman (inside & out) and we have a baby girl thats two years old. Life is good and God has been kind to us in all things but the major problem is our sex life….do not get me wrong, sex with my wife is beautiful, intense and fulfilling apart from the blow jobs!..the increasingly lack of it leaves me a bit empty and unhappy.
For 3 years I have not cheated on my wife and don’t intend to except if things continue as they are…..lately my wife finds blow jobs “demeaning” and a chore that lasts for like three minutes instead of the fun it once was…we both work a 9-5 pm shift.
Her head game used to be tight but now its uneventful..don’t mean to sound uncaring, I know she gets tired from work, the baby and me…I practically have to beg her to put it in her mouth for longer than five minutes.
We’ve spoken about it but things haven’t improved..infact learnt that women tend to give less head as the relationship progresses..is this true?..I love my wife and don’t want to cause her pain but I can’t live without my blow jobs too (I love it…men really do)…spoke with some friends and almost all are telling me to get a ‘headmistress” that their Madams don’t give enough BJ’s..should i get a girl for BJ only?..would it still be cheating?..(heard its the new thing for guys)…dunno if i can handle the guilt tho (before God and my wife)..am i just being selfish?..i do give her head anytime she wants it tho..which is like 5 times a year..lol..really at crossroads right now..the thots of a BJ less marriage is something i really can’t come to terms with..iImiss my BJ’s
Posted by
mbuyawamwambwa
December 22, 2012 at 11:00 am
Since you seem to be sick My advice is buy a dog and a bottle of jam. whenever you what bj just cover your penis with jam and give it to the dog to lick it. hope this will help you good luck wechinangwa we ulichipumbu kontwe
mulongoti
December 22, 2012 at 11:06 am
Since you seem to be sick My advice is buy a dog and a bottle of jam. whenever you what bj just cover your penis with jam and give it to the dog to lick it. hope this will help you good luck wechinangwa we ulichipumbu kontwe
M A A
December 22, 2012 at 11:11 am
tufweko as much as we would like to get comments from our readers, i think its wiser to edit some of these comments, because i am sure the reason for people to write thier problems here is to get the answer they require not insults. block such insults from the page because a lot of people read, within and outside our country. as Zambians are we going to be known to be people without a vision but just insults. its sad indeed.
Fred
December 22, 2012 at 11:21 am
If the story is true then my guy u r nt worth to be called a husband. U r monster. A normal person wudnt do such a nasty thing to his wife without any regards. It sucks bro! U nid 2 get a life. Surely yo wife hs even tod u she doesnt like it but u still insist.
sansamukeni
December 22, 2012 at 12:36 pm
Is this guy in Zambia??? U crazy???
kenboy
December 22, 2012 at 2:25 pm
Ask her y she is now resisting- she could have now realised that the act is demeaning and wants you to stop. If you are a christian, pliz stop the act coz its not bibilical
George
December 22, 2012 at 2:37 pm
LMAO……BJ MUDALA AWWE BOSS!
Chisaah
December 22, 2012 at 7:12 pm
Sick!..hey!
kakolwe
December 23, 2012 at 5:28 am
B4 they got married she gave him loads of BJs! She bribed him into marriage using BJ. Now that he iss hooked, she stops. Ma eat her pussy in the 69 position for 15 minutes, I tell U, shee will swallow dick whole!
smigo
December 23, 2012 at 10:13 am
If your wife just did a blow job on someone, would you consider unfaithfulness?
witchcraft
December 23, 2012 at 1:25 pm
tumnfweko remove this article you are all sinners even the one who was writting this article deserves to be in hell….sexually mentally corrupt.there is much more relevant news to be published around zambia….
Mr wise
December 23, 2012 at 2:03 pm
This is total misuse of the internet!y shud such stories be published?what teachings does it have?Has it got child lock? what ar we teaching our children and what was behind the mind of author and and the editor?
zac
December 23, 2012 at 3:29 pm
ITS A SHHEEETT JOBBBBBB, SWINE
Grabbie
December 23, 2012 at 4:48 pm
I hate blowjobz….afta shiz dun, nd wnts 2 kiss, meks me fil so gross nd I thnk I jst b gvin maslf head indirectly. Ma frnd u nid prayerz…
former zamtel
December 23, 2012 at 5:24 pm
BLOGGERS WHY DO WE PRETEND…THESE ISSUES ARE REAL..MOST MARRIED WOMEN SUCK THE DIXXXK FOR THEIR HUSBANDS..THATS ONE WAY OF KEEPING THE MARRIAGE WARM OTHERWISE YOUR MAN WILL GET THE EXPERIENCE ELSE WHERE…MOST OF THESE BEAUTFUL WOMEN WE ADMIRE DURING THE DAY…..ACTUALLY SPEND THEIR NIGHTS SUCKING DIXXKS….IF YOU HAVENT TRIED IT THEN YOU ARE MISSING OUT..MOST OF THESE LADIES THEIR ELASTICS HAVE STRETCHED SO MUCH SUCH THAT NORMAL SEX IS NOT ENJOYABLE BY THEIR MEN …SO TO SUPPLEMENT THE INADEQUACY BANACHITE HAS TO SUCK OR ELSE SHE MIGHT LOOSE THE HUSBAND…WELLL SOUNDS SACASTIC BUT ITS REAL… IN KABULONGA,KAMUCHANGA,KANYAMA,MAKENI,WOODLANDS,CHONGWE WHERE EVER WOMEN ARE SUCKING……..
gayman
December 23, 2012 at 7:39 pm
you are sick and probably need psych intervention. and please do not take the name of the Lord Our God in vain
honset
December 24, 2012 at 8:27 am
UKU KU CHITA MUKANWA????? ATASE CANT NEVER
Amuchi
December 28, 2012 at 2:24 pm
Mustpeople take pride in supporting such honestly.In as much as it happens it deost mean it has been transformed into a morally right thing.Please spare us the comments on it because its not worthy our energy to support.My bro please heed your wife’s position its not the right thing to do.educate your minds to accept it as an immoral thing and pray about it with your wife together.
Amuchi
December 28, 2012 at 2:25 pm
Must people take pride in supporting such honestly.In as much as it happens it deost mean it has been transformed into a morally right thing.Please spare us the comments on it because its not worthy our energy to support.My bro please heed your wife’s position its not the right thing to do.educate your minds to accept it as an immoral thing and pray about it with your wife together.
Hector
January 3, 2013 at 10:37 am
Hai!da Bj guy.Wel dear,ma advice is you would be cheating on your wife if you did a Bj wit another woman since as a couple u beliv in it.But you also nid to understand that christianically its not ryt to perfom Bj as it is ,in christian circles,a ritual known as soul tie. the bible daz no supot soul ties. Plz,kindly reason together with your wyf on how you can find a beter way of spicing up your romance or marriage.