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16 Year Old Mother And Baby Spending Nights In the Cold
A Lusaka mother has allegedly chased her 16 year old girl daughter from home for having a child out side marriage.
According to Muvi TV, the girl has been sleeping in the cold for two weeks now following the development.
Eness Banda was initially squatting with neighbors when she was chased about six months ago.
But her neighbor asked her to leave about two weeks ago when her mother started accusing them of keeping her without authority.
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Sibbuku
December 24, 2011 at 12:42 pm
And where is the father to the 16 year old girl and the father to her baby? It is not wrong to have a child, but girls should asses the economic ability of men to have children with. This is a shame. I would avise her to follow her boyfriend and submit all these problems. The mother should also be careful maybe she got her child out of wedlock as well.
TKC
December 24, 2011 at 12:43 pm
To bad.The devl woman hw cn u chse yo on dota frm home jst bcoz of a sli mistk.
The Don
December 24, 2011 at 12:56 pm
When I adopt the poor baby,I don’t want that old witch coming near the baby,now or ever. How do u chase yo own dota over such a thing,would she rather her dota terminated the pregnancy? And where is the social welfare department? Can some responsible teach the old witch a lesson pliz.
Blaise
December 24, 2011 at 1:24 pm
GOD IS SO GREAT,THT POOR BABY WIL HAVE A WONDERFUL FUTURE
Chibbalo
December 24, 2011 at 1:33 pm
Ok,somtymz try to thnk b4 u act…suppose dat dota of yoz dies out thre in da cold,dont u thnk u hav acted more lyk a murderer?…dat’s why general kanene amakuimbani imwe benangu…dnt bhav as though u’r a devil’s cousin…
hahaa
December 24, 2011 at 1:59 pm
its sad. where is ministry of community development. Do we have any women shelters in Zambia? Tumfweko do you have contact details for this lady? I am sure people would want to help the lady
Peter Tosh
December 24, 2011 at 2:09 pm
The girl was initially in school before her mother forced her into an arranged business marriage. She was not supposed to get pregnant while married, according to the deal. When she fell pregnant, the marriage collapsed and her mother- the mastermind of the marriage- forced her to abort or go to the village. When both options failed, she was locked out.
A kind neigbor accommodated the girl and her baby for four months but the mother threatened them for interfering. Fearful of the unknown the neighbour also surrendedered the girl and her baby to the forces of nature. That is where she is.
Ba zambia
December 24, 2011 at 2:11 pm
iwe mayo. y can u do that to your own child and your small grand child. honestly are u normal.Were u treated like that when u had that same girl 16 years ago. because maybe u had her in the same way.U woman,just know that the anger that GOD had on that child when she got pregnant out side marriage,has been shifted on u.So what ever will happen to that little girl and her baby,the GOD who created that girl will badly punish u. Be a mother enough mama and come to your senses.
jerryman
December 24, 2011 at 2:18 pm
God will help her out but where is the father to the child?
flezer joe
December 24, 2011 at 2:23 pm
ba tumfweko u cn adpt the baby 2 help u with some positv journalism whn she grws up, jst educate hr nt everyday reporting abt zimbabwe. bantu bakwelana ku zimbabwe u make it news in zambia
Ba zambia
December 24, 2011 at 2:25 pm
i believ she is a step child
Juan mwitwa
December 24, 2011 at 2:39 pm
Wemayo we shibweshamo mutima,be proud tht ur dota ws human enough nt to terminate th pregnancy n rmember a child is a blessin.women where hv u taken ur th respect n love we u once had??
Just Wondering
December 24, 2011 at 2:43 pm
With her plight now known, I hope she will not have to sleep out in the cold anymore. I pray that in the spirit of the festive season, someone kind hearted or even an organisation like YWCA gives her and her baby a warm place to stay.
MERRY XMAS TO TUMFWEKO & ALL ITS BLOGGERS!
kalulete
December 24, 2011 at 2:56 pm
mummy kakabali nobe wimona amakumbi ukufina..guys what’s the contact i nid to have a partner
cudi
December 24, 2011 at 3:33 pm
Very sad indeed, i believe she must be a step daughter
Yolanda Smith
December 24, 2011 at 4:01 pm
Where is the father of the child, I hate the way these boys do when they pregnate a girl and then they refuse , then later when the child is grown their like it’s my child ….bullshit not with me. Elo they don’t even know child support they are so selfish even the educated ones, kabili ngani ku USA kukukaka coz here if you don’t pay child support you go to jail.
kaluluta
December 24, 2011 at 4:12 pm
If da mother was da mastermind of da marriage,sh is wrng 2 make her b in dat situatiön,bt if da girl thought it wise 2 hav a child @ d@ age instd of bng @ sch let her face it.
miss be
December 24, 2011 at 4:27 pm
thts sad,hw does she chase her own blood..pipo mke mistkes bt its hw we go abt dealin wit them,tht we ll b judged.
Shibobo
December 24, 2011 at 4:43 pm
The situation sounds tricky to comment on.From the look of things;the mother has been living on prostitution and thought her child should start doing the same.So her child being pregnant was an hinderance to the business and the grandchild being the extra baggaged which should have been aborted in her thinking.I also guess this woman has no husband.Where can she get him when she is just a hooker.
There is just the need for charitable organisations to pick this girl and take her to rehab because according to me she is tired of the mothers style of life.
Kantwa
December 24, 2011 at 4:46 pm
At 16 she should have been at home, going to school and keeping her knickers on!
Kelvin mwilu
December 24, 2011 at 4:50 pm
Tumfweko i need information to help her. Where is she?
Kelvin mwilu
December 24, 2011 at 4:50 pm
Tumfweko i need information to help her. Where is she? Get me at 0966441036
Wanu Ngwee
December 24, 2011 at 5:31 pm
@Blaise & @Peter Tosh, you’re so right – for we know that a poor man’s hell is a rich man’s heaven!
Gate keeper
December 24, 2011 at 5:46 pm
where is the father to the baby?its his responsibility.But even though,the mother to the 16 year old is very wrong to kick her out in the cold.The lord is watching over the the baby’s innocent soul
KK
December 24, 2011 at 6:22 pm
they love to **** without knowing what it takes to keep the by product of that. no sympathy. its a lesson to her friends
Peter Tosh
December 24, 2011 at 6:34 pm
Police should get interested in this case. If she is 16 and the baby is over a year old as reported, then it follows that the man was sleeping with an underage girl then (logically under 16), who according to our law, is incapable of consenting to sex.
tute
December 24, 2011 at 6:59 pm
WHERE IS THE WATCHDOG ITS NOT FAIR WE CANT BE READING THE POST WHICH IS THE GOVT VUVUZELA NOW.
VIVA WATCH DOG
Inspector General of Police
December 24, 2011 at 7:22 pm
Peter Tosh uoneka monga uzibapo vambili pali uyu mulandu. Bwanji nicani siunabagwile bamai bamusikana po vomelesa under 16 kukwatiwa. Siuziba ati naiwe civilian ungagwile muntu under civilian or citizen’s arrest? Kapena ndiwe malume wa musikana. Siuziba we can trace you thru ‘tumfweko’ to help with investigations?
Mugwileni
December 24, 2011 at 7:33 pm
Mubekate ba s….ne……
what
December 24, 2011 at 7:51 pm
People asking of the father to the child!Mwalipena bushe?Obviously you can read between the lines or rather the writing is on the wall.Its highly obviously he is just as young as she is and is not important to even bother or ask about.They are just two silly teenagers experimenting and in the end the poor angel is paying the price of their nonsense, instead of being married to their school books,bale chita ifya bakulu ba stiopeti
Uko
December 24, 2011 at 8:20 pm
She needs to take the kid to wherever the kid’s father is. Teshet!
nakferd
December 24, 2011 at 8:46 pm
sad development indeed.but i would also urge the underaged not to be so ****** on some realities.i tok like this because of the burden am keeping at home which is as a result of such nature.and when they are conversing on 4n at night,kamubepafye,yet he has not even bought a nappy ka chikala.i married from a familly of sisters and the two young sisters to my wife misbehaved in the same way and they were offloaded on me as usual.i will now terorise them coz its not fair.
Woviziba
December 24, 2011 at 8:55 pm
I can look after both daughter and Baby. I’m far away in South Africa where Evil Witch wontfind us
what
December 24, 2011 at 8:57 pm
@NAKFERD,KEKEKEKEEKE,WANDEPULA,ATI I WILL TERRORISE THEM,HAHAHAHAH.TU MULAMU NAIWE,KUTUSUNGA FYE BUT PUT THEM STRAIGHT AND THEY LIVE BYYOUR HOUSE RULES NOMORE UNWANTED FIMO FIMO
nakferd
December 24, 2011 at 9:08 pm
@ what! you are right and i have come up with stiff measures on them.but ichi chimayo,she has to be punished for subjecting her daughter to such has conditions.
tute
December 24, 2011 at 9:18 pm
WHERE IS THE WATCHDOG
what
December 24, 2011 at 9:28 pm
@NAKFERD CHACINE TU MULAMU UTO TELL THEM, ITS YOUR WAY OR THE HIGHWAY.AWE CHI MAYO IS IN THE WRONG KWENA,NANGU BUKALI SHE HAS TO GIVE UMWANA WABO A SECOND CHANCE.THE OTHER DAY WE READ OF A 15 YEAR OLD LAKEROAD STUDENT WHO TOOK HER LIFE FOR REALLY NO PROPER JUSTIFICATION.KIDS ARE PRECIOUS AND THEY STAND TO BE CORRECTED.
Preacherman
December 24, 2011 at 9:52 pm
Such things are happening becoz of corruption..simple defination of corruption is going from good to bad.,when we in the book of Genesis 6VS5, 2peter1vs4,romans1vs 21-30. When these versus man want to live his own life not of God..when govt is talking about they only talking in the area of money, but they forgetting that ths thing start from the minds. Why young girls getting pregnant at tender ages? They living in corrupt environment, where sex is done during the day and night and pipo are happy about it..look in the way these young girls dresses..they wear clothes that activate the lust of flesh..when men look at them they get confused and the only thing that wil cme in their minds is to propose and ve sew wth them..we need to change our minds set . Govt shud cme strongly wth stiff measures on parents that stops youngs frm going to sch and they shud cme up wth a dressing cord..during kk era u cant see a lady’s pant or under wear unless when having sex..not now even old ladies exposing their underwears anyhow.
Kukomoka Lifasi
December 24, 2011 at 10:25 pm
Children make mistakes, and making a mistake is not a crime, blessed persons learn from mistakes, As a mother, should you chase your daughter because of having a baby outside marriage? Please am begging you to apologise to your daughter/grandchild whether they are yours or not the grand child has not committed any sin/crime, it does not deserve this kind of harsh treatment, who knows the same baby you have chased might be the president in future. If I will hear u visiting him/her, you will feel my weight!! Useless!!
Gunslinger
December 25, 2011 at 7:09 am
Whatever
happens, HH will NEVER rule Zambia !
Gunslinger
December 25, 2011 at 7:13 am
Namumfwa, tapali ichigayo ! HH bukala bwakwe will grow o
d crying over ubutungulushi !Ubufumu bwesu guys !
chanda kabwe
December 25, 2011 at 7:41 am
umwana kasembe kakukoma wamwela wakobeka,i don’t think thatS her biological child.genuine mothers forgives quickly.shame.the lord wil see them through
Babyjew86
December 25, 2011 at 8:18 am
Am ready 2 marry her.pliz guy help me find her.
maki
December 25, 2011 at 8:23 am
the daughter is supposedly 16 and is therefore by law supposed to be under the custody of the mother regardless of her having a child. let her report the mother to the victim support unit.finish
Tumfweko nafimbi
December 25, 2011 at 12:57 pm
Abo bamayo cinangwa saana. Wat she shud ve understood was dat her dota wasnt a profesional hule like her 2 avoid pregnances. So she shud ve kept the dota & her baby. Bacikate nokuciposa mwiselo pakuti cikomfwe ifyo cumfwika ukulala pambilibili.