NGO Saddened With INCREASING Number Of Small Girl’s Patronizing Clubs And Taverns, Parents ADVISED

A local organisation, SIBONGINKHOSI FOUNDATION, is saddened at the increase in the number of defilement cases in Zambia and about the increasing number of small girls patronizing night clubs.
In a statement released to Tumfweko, foundation Sibonginkosi CEO, Martin Mulenga, said the foundation has expressed concern over the vice and called on parents to be wary of what their children do and take precaution henceforth.
Below is the full statement
“We would like to express our concerns about the rise in the cases of child defilement in last few months in our country. It is indeed disheartening that our men continue with such activities with impunity despite the massive sensitization against this evil and the harsh punishment of minimum of 15 years imprisonment that comes with it once arrested.
UTH reported yesterday (Monday) that the number of defilement cases being recorded has been on the increase and that now it’s an everyday situation especially among girls between the ages of 12 and 14 years. We are aware that child defilement has been in existence for a lot of years back but with much awareness nowadays, we expect the tread to be going down instead of having an upward gradient.
It is in our view that this evil will not be won through stiffer punishment and sensitization only but also by personal effort and change of mentality by the citizens to stop the activity. This is an evil that has everything to do with mirth’s of cure for some STI and AIDS or Cleansing from some evil spirits of some sort and/or mere lack of self control. We are making an Ernest appeal to our men to brash these mirth’s away and face reality to say that this acts are wrong and should not be allowed to continue at all.
We further would like to appeal to our parents and guardians to ensure they are not loose on their Children especially when going and coming back from schools. Let’s ensure that our children are escorted and collected at reporting and knocking off times respectively.
It is also important that our teachers live up to the trust that people have In them as they leave their children in their hands for hours, hence need to find time to explain to the children that they need not to be silent about men touching them in certain ways or even having sex with them but should tell the parents or/ and the teachers about it immediately no matter what they give them being sweets, money or even being threaten.
We have seen situations where school going children are busy hiking vehicles asking for a lift from strangers, our children’s need to be taught to fear people they do not know, but also not to let our children loose on every relative just because it’s any uncle, cousin or brother because these have been found to be the main culprits seeing that they are trusted. Once the matter is reported no matter who is evolved, father, uncle, grandfather, friend, brother must be reported to the police so that it acts as a deterrent to other would be perpetrators.
It is also a serious concern to note the number of small girl’s patronizing clubs and taverns and drinking alcohol while illicitly dressed. These are some of the main reasons why you find even big men are being tempted to have carnal knowledge with small girls.
We should not let things to chance, Bemba’s say;” ICHIKU TACHIPALAMA NAMULILO”. Girls need not to take themselves to the sacrificial alters they need to respect, keep themselves and concentrate on things that will positively affect their lives not alcohol consumptions and illicitly relations with big men all for the love of goodies and money. Parents need to ensure they provide for the needs of their children and avoid too much child bearing if they do not have the capacity to look after them.
We further urge all clubs owners to strictly stop underage patrons in their premises but further we urge the councils not to relate in enforcing the law. We urge religious organizations and business communities to talk against these evils in their congregations during their preaching’s and meetings so that the message can go across as we need every one to rise up and fight this wrong tooth and nail.
We on the other hand, would like to recommend parents, guardians and everyone who has come out in the open to report to the relevant authority’s and speaks against such a vice.”

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50 Responses to NGO Saddened With INCREASING Number Of Small Girl’s Patronizing Clubs And Taverns, Parents ADVISED

akabwambe

February 29, 2012 at 8:54 am

Yesterday one of the man was beaten by the group of prostitutes at stevemore here in solwezi and he was left naked in the public,for failing to pay the money after having sex with one of the prostitutes.
fekam

February 29, 2012 at 8:58 am

Reality is real.The Name of the organisation seems to be a borrowed one “SIBONGINKHOSI” why not use local names, have we run out of local names.Any way that aside, Its not poverty that is causing that no sexual cleansing but moral decay, UN and its Human rights.You take a small wipe to discipline and deter your child from such immoral acts, the courts of law sentencing you to 15years in imprisonment with hard labour. A wipe is a biblical concept ( spare the rod and spoil) the child. parents have no say about there own child. Because of that, they are afraid to bear children and prefer turn sex as an enjoyment act of pleasure and leave thousands of an born children in condoms.
No matter what we do as long as the father of children are left to human rights, we will not win the battle.
Chikala

February 29, 2012 at 8:59 am

“Small girls” and when they need more money they go to report someone that they have been defiled, God help us.
true bantustans:

February 29, 2012 at 9:29 am

rubish what is there to be suddned with? micheal sata has failed to give hope to young stars so what do you want them to be doing? you the n.g.os are very useless,blame sata and not the inocent lads.uur
Uncle p

February 29, 2012 at 9:31 am

OK, the world is so crazy now. we are shifting from bibilical principals ti human rights as aguide to life, most unfortunately coz the result is a corrupt society with moral decay. bana aba are coming from parents who are so restricted to discipline.
girl

February 29, 2012 at 9:54 am

gentlemen please learn how to ‘tuck em neatly’ in your bambas.. just cuz a woman/girl is dressed sexy means an invitation for you
girl

February 29, 2012 at 10:03 am

when babies are stolen from their cribs and playground just to be raped by men, is it that they are dressed in sexy nappies & miniskirts or have been patrolling in tarvens? No men just need to control their primitive savage behaviour of fcuking anything with a hole.. not even goats and ducks feel safe anymore
Affected

February 29, 2012 at 10:14 am

church congregations or church meetings esp.. overnight prayer meetings are No.1 breeding place for fornication, girls are impregnanted by choir masters, pastors & fellow church members. Im still looking after a child conceived in a church building, the father run away and joined othe congregations where he’s continued sexually abusing innocent young girls looking for salvation in church
BarotseLander

February 29, 2012 at 10:18 am

Why should a cultureless guy with a foreign NGO name try to comment on a moral issue?He lacks originality for starters.This is not news,who is this guy anyway.
Advocate

February 29, 2012 at 10:20 am

I suppose the west is looking at us and celebrating that they have achieved in getting us talking about homosexuality. Consider the following:

1. In Zambian homosexuality, bestiality, defilement, rape and GBV are all undeniably rampant and on the rise. These all are illegal, unnatural, un cultural, un religious (whatever religion there is in this country) and are punishable by law.

2. If in Zambia anyone will be arrested and punished / rehabilitated for marrying more than one partner, defilement, bestiality and conduct likely to cause breach of peace, Why should a homosexual be let loose and given (“wrongs”) rights? Why should BAN Ki-moon be allowed to come here and expose “conduct like to cause breach of peace” and hosted for a banquette?

3. There is no such thing as Gay right. Like the able lawyer Mumba Kapumpa put it on radio. there are only human right and not defiler right, sodomists rights, Homosexual rights and all these wrong wrongs!

4. We MUST arrest and persecute anyone who come to breach our peace, advocate for homosexuals to be adored (in the same group as defilers.) beginning with Mr. Ban Ki-moon. He should not only apologize but be arrested for advocating for our citizens to break our law, culture, religion nature and all there is for us to believe in. Our laws are for everyone within the bounds to abide by.

5. Join me in the “black ribbon campaign” against homosexuality and denouncing BAN Ki-moon!

6. Lets us all take this self imposed intrinsic freedom to discriminate and isolate dehumanize homosexuals, defilers, rapists. Let us punish, rehabilitate and pray for them and our most beautiful land Zambia!
Girls

February 29, 2012 at 10:40 am

Do the chickens and goats wear miniskirts, men control your selves
janet c

February 29, 2012 at 11:00 am

@ advocate – why r u deviating from the topic? The topic is the rampant defilement by zambian men, NOT homosexuality! Deal with realities that is the problem with zed. The ,/+ is right – we should actually make rape and defilement punishable by instant hanging to deter these sick men!!! A christian nation – my foot!!!
Parent

February 29, 2012 at 11:08 am

Love for money is causing all this,let’s teach our children on how to behave.Parents have a key responsibility of teaching their children and by doing so,children will respest themselves wherever they go.
GUN

February 29, 2012 at 11:15 am

Ive never heard of defilement at a drinking place or guest house,so those you see are old women in children’s dress only to attract blinded Tonga bulls.
shax da vapour.

February 29, 2012 at 11:19 am

anythng has a source of identification wich draws attention,fo xample,chealse,man u o asenal funs cn be identified by their atire.if u girls and ladies contine exposing yo essentials in da nem of fashion,u ‘ll be cheezed and hav yo legs divided against yo will.its simple.mind yo dresing and we ll calm our thngs.
nakferd

February 29, 2012 at 11:39 am

@ janet c,why are you so bitter on those denouncing homosexuality? ok,now,the fact is that there is something wrong in our society.because of advances in our lifestyle certain aspects that are considered as aborminations have evolved to their peak pronouncements as other members of our community try hard to legalise such,hence the human mind has been induced by failure of fear which has resulted to seeking wrong ways of solving problems.check out how corrupt the minds of these kids are,and you come out clean to chalenge me if human right which i define as free from punishment has brought any good in our society.parents cannot discipline their own children for they have rights today.
Tonga Bull

February 29, 2012 at 11:44 am

Those small girls who like going to clubs in skimpy clothes should not complain when they get raped. infact if i was a police officer and i find a small girl in a club who has been raped i cant even waste my time looking for the rapist i would instead fine the girl, that when she will learn.
pulamasaka

February 29, 2012 at 11:53 am

change your name imwe..you are not SA..!
Abestar Sukumula

February 29, 2012 at 11:53 am

this is not faire,all the men who finish in jail for nathing!!
look at the women dressing nowadays,you can’t no who is in marreged,he it is no older no yaunger all look the some,if they wared the trouse you can even see the line divise the two pices of vigina, othaugh is not goog.

how can a mother teach a daughter to stop waring the min skirt,skin tyte,min chot,bareback,live the tomac naked afterlow she wared those thing?

the gvt said it humanright,the churches stop completly preach about dressing because they are wives also wared the some thing
girl

February 29, 2012 at 12:27 pm

@ Tonga Bull .. Idiota! Hopefully one of your babies will be stolen from her babycot just to be raped by id!ots like you, then you will know what i mean.
janet c

February 29, 2012 at 12:27 pm

I wish you would stop blaming victims of this abuse – i.e. women – for the atrocity of rape and defilement. Men should accept that they have a very big problem – why is it that in the western world rape and defilement cases are not as high as zambia’s, despite women dressing skimpily! The zambian man really needs to re-define himself, re-brand and civilise his mind because he is slowly becoming useless to society and faces extinction. As the saying goes, change or die!!!!
umuntu

February 29, 2012 at 1:01 pm

There is no hope in politics, everyone concerned about his own pockets. I knew this will happen, sometimes we tend to worship these political leaders. Zambia will have reasonable people in leadership maybe in 20 years to come. This is very sad, these people are Zambians, leaders are respecting foreigners instead of their own people. That is what power can do anyway, it blindfolds. You easily see faults when you are out there, once you are in the game, it’s another story altogether.
They spoke against labor laws because they wanted to buy a vote, what has come out of them?
steevetwanj

February 29, 2012 at 1:46 pm

lets help thze kidz wenever we find dem. honestly hw wud u feel buying a beer at de counter alongside a smo gal old enuf 2 b yo dota even yo sissy? thy nid our help and prayers.
Mr wise

February 29, 2012 at 1:52 pm

@ Girl,U have said some men have primitive savage behaviour of fucking anything with a hole….even goats and ducks do not even feel safe anymore.Ladies,pls let us debate on issues which affect us positively and politely,Honestly how do u say that we are now targeting anything including goats and ducks?Even if u are grieved pls narrow yo comments.The issue here is how can we stop under age girls from patroling bars ok, and we are saying that this can be one of the causes of defilement….The reasoning is , a young girl dresses to kill and parades her self before drunk matured men in bars ll they find out her age?Then the following these men are jailed.is it fair?
Mukombe

February 29, 2012 at 2:18 pm

Well spoken fekam there lies the answer you may have other solutions but fekam you have hit the nail on the head.
Wolfinsheepskin

February 29, 2012 at 2:29 pm

These kids need help n prayers….
shax da vapour

February 29, 2012 at 3:05 pm

its because of da seller that ther is a buyer,somebody tel me,do pipo eat only when they hav apetite?no one leaves hs home in search of samone to rape.i dnt blame rapists coz their actions provides answers to da questions askd by ladies in terms of dresing..janet and girls,stop westing yo time by criticising rapists,instead,advice yo felow ladies on proper dresing,as i said,cover yo essentials and we ‘ll kip our thngs calm.
NKANDU

February 29, 2012 at 3:08 pm

IN NIGHT CLUBS THERES NO RAPE.PERIOD.
Gen Kanene

February 29, 2012 at 3:11 pm

jail loomz
NIGGER advocate

February 29, 2012 at 4:19 pm

men men men…it’s about time you stoped been men and became Men… a man is supposed to have self control nd show a little civility not go around behaving like an animal… not even dogs defile their young,,,, damn wat is this world coming to? hope u the defilers rot in hell and in jail….
k

February 29, 2012 at 4:19 pm

human rights.u ar nt against homosex ati human ryts.leave zm zy enjoy zr ryts.
NIGGER advocate

February 29, 2012 at 4:20 pm

men men men…it’s about time you stoped been men and became Men… a man is supposed to have self control nd show a little civility not go around behaving like an animal… not even dogs defile their young,,,, damn wat is this world coming to? hope u the defilers rot in hell and in jail…. fuseki
janet c

February 29, 2012 at 4:24 pm

@ shax da vapour – you have to come to terms with the fact that the world (including zambia) has changed! If you can’t change, then go and live in saudi Arabia or another sharia compliant nation – after all, nowadays it is free movement of labour. If you choose to rape because of women’s dressing, then you will go to jail for at least 15 years where the gays will sort you out – maybe then you will shut up!!!

In the west, women dress as they please – is rape as rampant as in Zambia? Change your bloody mind-sets or you will be left behind
polopolo

February 29, 2012 at 4:47 pm

Some men think with their di..ks instead of their heads that is the difference between real men and di..k men.
Tonga Bull

February 29, 2012 at 5:09 pm

@ girl, i am not talking about babies, i am talking about those girls and women who wear skimpy outfits and go parade themselves in public, what are they looking for, when they get what they are looking for, they start complaining. These days if you walk around in public areas you can think its a strip club.
OneloveR

February 29, 2012 at 5:34 pm

I have a concern over some people who are apprarently educated it sounds, but they simply can’t reason. They have run away from being what they really are. Perhaps we are dealing with a non african here; example is janet C, so theoretical and phantasy kind of even in real life – hope shes not in Zed.

Ebakaba banacimbusa aba, bakafunda bani?
Big Chilolo

February 29, 2012 at 5:40 pm

When I go 2 a club,tavern, bar or whteva u want 2 call it,I look 4 two things.
1. I look for a cold beer
2. I look for pussy.
Now in case u didn’t know,both beer and pussy are readily available in such places. So if u want 2 stop me from consuming any of these,u simply stop stocking them. Failure to which I will pay 4 both and enjoy them. In case ur a thick head,the issue is; stop the so called 14 year olds from patronizing such places and advocating for sex in exchange 4 money coz I will **** any pussy I lay my hands on as long as it can handle me.
One other thing,some dudes who have been jailed didn’t even rape those girls,they were merely framed by the so called 14 year olds who wanted more money after being fucked.
Lastly,wht does no under 18 mean? So if these kids go to such places and they get fucked,whose fault is it?
Big Chilolo

February 29, 2012 at 5:54 pm

@ Janet C,your observations are valid,any so called man who commits rape deserves 2b caged for his filthy act. Tht is 2 say,he entices small girls from their homes,churches,schools,streets,parks and any other safe places meant for them. Now whts yo view on 14 year olds who patronize drinking places clad in skimpy regalia and advocating for sex in exchange for cash?
janet c

February 29, 2012 at 7:16 pm

@ Big Chilolo – my view is that govt needs to introduce stiffer penalties against under-age bar and tavern patrons. The selling of alcohol and nicotine to under 18 year-olds should be made an offence and bars/taverns should be charged if found wanting.

Are you telling me that all women who get raped are dressed skimpily? let us not forget that a few days ago a randmother was raped by a young man.

I am beginning to think that Zambian men have become demon-possessed. So men should not ‘hide’ behind women’s dressing to justify their own evilness and inhumane acts
demba ba

February 29, 2012 at 9:01 pm

@janet c..well spoken my lady. i have been folowing all your comments on different topics and i must say u sound decent and very brilliant..can we linkup for for some personal discussions!!
lady e

February 29, 2012 at 10:04 pm

sibonginkosi is not really a foreign name among the ngonis of eastern province. the sister to chief madzimawe of the ngoni people has such a name and we also have names such as thando, dingase among other names which you can also find among the ndebele and zulu, since we have the same origin.
Janet c

March 1, 2012 at 12:01 am

” demba ba – thank you for your support, it is good to know there are people out there who thin straight.

@ OneloveR – I am very much zambian my dear. You need to understand that zambian women have changed my friend – you seem not to believe that a zambian woman thinks this way – wake up before its too late my friend… you cant be existing in the 21st century but choose to think like the medivial days or the days of savagery – va chinja vintu mu chalo, move with the times!

And why do zambian men find it ok for white women to dress skimpily then? You just want to keep the black woman down – shame on you
demba ba

March 1, 2012 at 12:41 am

@janet c – wagona olo bwanji?
Tonga Bull

March 1, 2012 at 7:20 am

Demba Ba and Janet C, this is not a dating site, if you want to hook up, find another place to do it , not on this blog.
inshimbi

March 1, 2012 at 8:41 am

Bafikala, instade of comdaming gay rights you are busy worried of small girls patronizing bars, what do you want more boys patronizing bars? NGOS my ass, find something to get worried of those girls are big its just the money they are looking for to go back to school, instead of spending those dollars you come with as NGOS on better schools and social welfare of the children, you are busy supporting homosexuality , to hell with you gay rights you idiots.
PORN STAR*

March 1, 2012 at 11:56 am

We ****** women love it when we are raped, and that is why we dress in skimpy dresses, coz we know that, that is what a drunken rapist is looking for,so we are just appealing to the Government to pliiiiz stop jailing our rapists and infact it is us who they should be arresting, because we are so iresistible in our mini skirts,skin jeans,tights,see throughs etc. All in the name of this 21st century!!! come and rape me pliiiiz am only 14 and i am horny!!!!! Bfikala puliiiz napapata!!
PORN STAR*

March 1, 2012 at 12:07 pm

Guyz pliz before we go ahead and screw or rape these beaches, let us always ask for their NRC to avoid being nailed for defilment no matter the situaton/circumstance!!!
ZEDMAN

March 1, 2012 at 1:21 pm

INERESTING DEBATE. HOWEVER, THE ARTICLE WAS ON UNDERAGE PATRONAGE OF BARS AND TAVERNS. PARENTS AND GUARDIANS SHUD WORK HARD TO CONTROL AND KNOW WHAT THEIR CHILDREN ARE DOING AND THE COMPANY THAT THEY ARE KEEPING. THEY SHUD ALSO TEACH THEIR CHILDREN THE REASONS WHY IT IS WRONG FOR THEM TO GO TO THESE PLACES UNTIL THEY ARE OLDER.OF COURSE THE BAD EGGS DO NOT ACCEPT SUCH REASONING THUS THE SCOURGE IN THE COUNTRY.
Higher Taller

March 1, 2012 at 7:18 pm

Imwe ba Tumfweko There is a difference between small and young. Someone can be old or adult but still be small. And someone can be young and be big!
Cheerful Giver

March 1, 2012 at 8:00 pm

PORN STAR*, ati NRCs, okay.