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Husbands Are Pushing Their Wives Into Sex With Strange Men – Married Woman
I’m in a similar situation too but mine is somehow different. I’m also married for 2yrs now I love my husband so much hence we got married after sometime he started misbehaving probably because I didn’t have a job then.(even though I was engaged with some other things so I wouldn’t be idle and look lazy).
He treats me like trash, talk about his other female friends all d time, giving them more attention etc. I managed to swallow all that. As if that wasn’t enough he picks on me unnecessarily, finds fault in nothing. My husband who is supposed to be my best friend became or is a stranger to me. The bond is no longer that strong.
Which woman would be happy to see her man exchanging nude pics with another lady?
He does all that and in his small mind he thinks I know nothing about it. Feeling like a player and funny enough when we were dating, he never showed any signs of all These nasty attitudes, trust me I wouldn’t have even thought of even getting married to him. Luckily for me I got a good paying job and I was happy that at least I have a friend now (my job) something I would look forward to every day.
I started work, things were going on fine until I met this young charming guy (my age mate) who lends me the listening ear and all. He is fun with a great sense of humor. We talk for long hours everyday even have dates outside the office, we flirt a lot (no sex) we are very good friends in fact people always think we are an item.
Now I’m so happy n joyful because I know I have someone to lean on. Now the tables have turned around and my ‘dear husband’ is beginning to feel bad.
The long and short is: the men are the ones who push us to the wall. You feel you can do all the nasty things and expect us to take it? We are humans please, if u cannot remain faithful then please stay single! Don’t make us go out.
Ladies please don’t sit there and say tradition forbids this or that… make yourself happy u have only one life don’t live it for you husband it should be mutual. Sorry to say if u die in silence. He wouldn’t even wait one day before hooking up another lady. I’m not saying u should go sleeping around, just don’t let it get to u go out have friends and be happy (just like me now)
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on November 29, 2012. Filed under Letters To The Editor, NEWS.
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pwete
November 30, 2012 at 6:27 am
Its just the devil at work,God’s idea of marriage is happy,faithful,patient and loving but the devil takes away the joy especially in husbands and they in turn frustrate women,these women hav such problems that they become vulnerable and end up cheating but it was never their intention.Some men rilly starve their wives and make them feel below standard so the question men shud ask themselves is y did I get married? Its important fo a man to thru AMAFUNDE coz most guys just get married and hav no clue how to take care of a woman.
Harrodsburg
November 30, 2012 at 6:37 am
Abanakashi echobabela indoshi shinyela. In the picture, umu boys nalala, gelo katwishi efyo ale planner.
aisha
November 30, 2012 at 7:38 am
u people are bored…even have the energy to argue ****** issues
Umwina Nkana
November 30, 2012 at 8:51 am
LADIES LADIES LADIES … YOUR DESPERATION BLINDS YOU TO ALL SHOUTING SIGNS IN RELATIONSHIPS! I’M SURE YOU KNOW POINTERS THAT YOU FOOLISHLY IGNORED! IT’S A LOT OF WORK TO PRETEND AND IMPOSSIBLE BEYOND A CETAIN POINT
Lachi
November 30, 2012 at 4:13 pm
Janet n othr r rit.men r a problem.inmy case.i do evrythng 4 ths man,am vry educated tho bt i jst allow him 2 reign,tho i dnt hav a job.wht does he do 2 me,calls me ******,**** u,unproductv,beats me.wht saprises me is he uses objects whn beatng me eg presing iron,picture frames,all the tym i jst luk at him nevr fyt bak.hes phon has a pass wrd n no 1 taches it.ladies call jst 2 say hai n all tht.hav grown up 2 b a gud gal.i fail 2 engage wth a guy or hav a boyfrnd.my fear 4 God has killed me.bt sam of my frnds hav n thy r hapi.am miserable evry day.whn i jst see hs car i start panikng,mekng sure evry thng is in odr,no dust,no baby cryng,if nt he wil start shoutng n bagng the dor.i ask my self,is my God aslp?hav i wrongd him?i cant liv coz i dnt hav a job yet,my kids wil sufer,i dnt hav whr 2 go.my God awake n fyt 4 me is my prayer.
Comfort
November 30, 2012 at 6:10 pm
@Lachi…why are u still in dat marriage,wat kind of man doesnt want to hear da cry o his own baby?why live da only,only life u wil eva have,miserably.pray for Gods favor in getn a job.even if he eventualy comes to love u,he wud av finishd all da whores,workmates nd sum of ur galfrnds.it wil be cz his tired of it all nd u wud av bin worn out-mentally.many will say be strong n stay.i say-leave him!!! iv lost many aunties thru ukushipikisha.
EEK- A- MOUSE
November 30, 2012 at 6:45 pm
LISTEN,MEN AND WOMEN,RICH OR POOR,NEITHER NOR….FOR EVERY WROG YOU DO, GOD WILL PUNISH YOU!!! ETERNAL GNASHING OF TEETH
EEK- A- MOUSE
November 30, 2012 at 6:46 pm
LISTEN,MEN AND WOMEN,RICH OR POOR,NEITHER NOR….FOR EVERY WRONG YOU DO, GOD WILL PUNISH YOU!!! ETERNAL GNASHING OF TEETH
BURNING SPEAR
November 30, 2012 at 6:53 pm
CONTINUE REPAYING EVIL WITH EVIL! AND YOUR REWARD WILL BE DEATH. YOU THINK GOD WILL ACCEPT YOUR PROMISCUITY,SHAH! IF THE CHIMAFIA IS MISTREATING YOU WITHOUT CHANGE LEAVE HIM..U SHALL NOT DIVORCE BUT UNDER ADULTEROUS POSITION YOU CAN DIVORCE MINUS GETING MARRIED TO ANOTHER UNTIL/OR THE OTHER PARTNER DIES…POSIBLY OF STIs BCOZ OF HIS MISBEHAVIOUR