For people worried about offending God on the issue of masturbation, yours truly renowned man of God of the Christ embassy Pastor Chris Oyakilome reckons it is not a sin to masturbate.
In a television broadcast of Pastor Chris Live, a viewer from Ghana sent in a question asking how one can overcome masturbation.
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome kept his cool and tackled the questions head on – even though his answer must have got a good number of viewers going OMG!
“The reason you want to stop this is because of what you think it is,” he says. “You think there’s something wrong with this. Get this straight, in itself it is not a sin against God but satan uses it to oppress our minds to make us feel ineffective and inefficient in the things of God. God has got nothing to do with it, he is not offended by it unless it takes a hold of your mind.”
Pastor Chris likens masturbation to playing football. It’s a habit, he says, and if you want to stop it, replace it with another habit.
Ok, so certainly, this must come as a relief to many!
Domika
February 24, 2012 at 3:13 pm
Why musturbate? JUST MARRY AND ENJOY YOURSELF.
kay
February 24, 2012 at 3:27 pm
m not clear pliz add mo points 2 dat
fever
February 24, 2012 at 3:35 pm
I love this man!
Mwe bantu mwe
February 24, 2012 at 3:36 pm
You pipo tell me for how long can a man stay without meeting a woman which leads him to musturbate? Pliz I nid an answer.
Exhaust Blown Diffuser
February 24, 2012 at 3:49 pm
@Mwe bantu mwe depends with age & hormone levels
Dien
February 24, 2012 at 3:58 pm
Abena @ Panji R Chipeta, bushe mula bomba?
Lasache
February 24, 2012 at 4:06 pm
wasting of semen is not bibilical.Osatila mu vacuum (Pollution)
living by mercy
February 24, 2012 at 4:18 pm
the question here is who is glorified in the act of masturbation.that we do it doesnt make it right.may God have mercy
tunda mbuzi
February 24, 2012 at 4:32 pm
manji ninshi is it possible to musterbate without thinking about a naked girl?,but iyo futi izankala lust kaili,maybe kui-ganizila mu mwamoneni……
Chongo kantu
February 24, 2012 at 4:36 pm
May God help us to understand his word,they will come in a sheepclothing while their intention will be to bring glory to the prince of darkness.
Pastor Chris Musonda
February 24, 2012 at 4:46 pm
the word of God says Marry so that you do not burn with passion.
no pastor or priest should be allowed to change the word of God.
not even an angel is permitted to preach boob
muntu
February 24, 2012 at 4:50 pm
in as much as the bible does not sat about this,it is a sin in that when you masterbet,you imagin you are having sex and that is sin in the eyes of God.
Mule1
February 24, 2012 at 5:25 pm
@Tina thats wat do use wen mastubating a bananas o an empty bottle?.
vincent
February 24, 2012 at 5:39 pm
thats totally harrase thats not the intensoin of God for private parts but for urinating,sex and for giving birth for a woman
real christian
February 24, 2012 at 5:48 pm
its a sin
CACTUS
February 24, 2012 at 7:34 pm
Am sure if this message came from TB Joshua would have been taken as Gospel truth,
1st Thessalonians 4
For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
7 For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness.
Read the above chapter
shinxu
February 24, 2012 at 8:09 pm
seriously the word is cumin to an end!!
mike zulu
February 24, 2012 at 8:13 pm
When the programme of pastor chris live beginning I even discussed with one man of God at this programme will just disgrace his ministry, because some will ask a question to fool him.and these are the out come.
Nzengo
February 24, 2012 at 8:42 pm
How much is a ‘rampant rabbit’ pa Zed?
born again
February 24, 2012 at 9:00 pm
thats sin
Madmyk
February 24, 2012 at 9:28 pm
It all depends what you visualise when you do it.. Some of us just need to look at our paychecks and thats enough!
Mr. Njota
February 24, 2012 at 9:39 pm
Thank you pastor continue preaching. I’ll never marry and i’ll be now masterbating in the morning, noon and late evening. Bravo to ponyoponyo…..
Bunyuz
February 24, 2012 at 9:47 pm
Much like a person who is an Alcoholic must avoid any kind of drinking like the plague, where others can drink with moderation and without sin, the same principle applies here.
The question is..
Can you in honesty, masturbate without sinning against the clear commands of Christ? If yes, then we are never told that the act is impure or forbidden. But let us be honest and admit that it is not easy to do if we are committed to avoid sexual sin.
Morals
February 24, 2012 at 10:08 pm
By very uncommon reasoning, what makes masturbation wrong is that it goes against the proper use of the faculty of human sexuality. Sexy is meant for mutual enjoyment; there is so much of mutual-self-giving to the other loved person involved in the practice of sex. No wonder people tolk of soul-ties. To who do you give yourself each time you masturbate? To noone; but rather use yourself to attain some pleasure. It is morally wrong to use a person for Your own individual pleasure; worse to use yourself. It is a very selfish act that defeats the whole purpose of human sexuality; mutual self-giving (sex is meant for this).
christopher Docctor
February 24, 2012 at 10:18 pm
The bible says’ do not judge other and God wil not judge u. Be humble holy pple.
engwe
February 24, 2012 at 10:18 pm
Can somebody tell me, which verse is the pastor corting? Truly, the world is ending in 2016.
Uwakwamununga
February 25, 2012 at 12:29 am
AWE INE PALI SEXOLOGY NABWELAPOFYE.IPUSHENI HAANTOBOLO HAMUNENE.
oxmos
February 25, 2012 at 4:54 am
if wet dream is not sin then even mustbn isnt sin, but if one convince me that ka “mustbn” is sin then all humans who wet dream should repent but then how?
Roga Roga-Combatant
February 25, 2012 at 7:50 am
Pliz men of God let some1 come out and educate us biblically on dis issue.Personally i certainly dnt know which is which,i need points 2 prove masturbation is sin and vice versa.Pastors,evangelists,deacons,preachers,fathers,bishops etc come out and xplain 2 us.
Jelita and Mulenga
February 25, 2012 at 7:50 am
Well, here is another pseudo-religious imbecile for arrest and deportation. Simply because he thinks it is okey to pull his wire, does not mean we should all follow suit. Next he will be saying, I steal and kill and it is okey, so you can steal and kill as well. Watch this space
Chikala
February 25, 2012 at 10:02 am
Chriss you have missed it there naiwe wine
MasterBetter
February 25, 2012 at 10:08 am
I think ba Chris “master bates” day and night. Thats why he sees nothing wrong with it.
msanzala
February 25, 2012 at 10:18 am
there pipo who mustbt in order to avoid doing it with the woman, this not sin and the other problem is that it is not mentioned anywhere in the bible.
The most disciplined!
February 25, 2012 at 10:50 am
Umuntu ni kunda!
Pastor Paul Wise Lumbu
February 25, 2012 at 11:03 am
Much like a person who is an Alcoholic must avoid any kind of drinking like the plague, where others can drink with moderation and without sin, the same principle applies here. So people might come to different conclusions concerning masturbation, and that is anticipated within our faith. Each man must live in holiness before the Lord in his/her own body, and this might mean different disciplines and personal leading in each case. What works for me or you… we should not impose on anybody else as a stumbling block.
Rom 14:12-13 (NIV) So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling-block or obstacle in your brother’s way.
The important thing is that we live holy before Him, and this is a matter that we should take very seriously. I assume this is why you are interested in this question, because you want to please God by avoiding any kind of sin. And when it comes to sexual sin in the thought-life, in our culture this is an easy temptation to fall into. So care and caution are appropriate as we consider these things and make choices before the Lord.
Pastor Paul Wise Lumbu
February 25, 2012 at 11:04 am
Can you, in all honesty, masturbate without sinning against the clear commands of Christ? If yes, then we are never told that the act itself is impure or forbidden. But let us be honest and admit that it is not so easy to do if we are committed to avoid mental sexual sin.
Pastor Paul Wise Lumbu
February 25, 2012 at 11:15 am
Is Masturbation a Sin?
Today’s Question: Is Masturbation a sin?
Carlos M.
Bible Answer: Just recently I came across a passage of Scripture that seems to deal with masturbation.
“‘When a man has an emission of semen, he must bathe his whole body with water, and he will be unclean till evening. Any clothing or leather that has semen on it must be washed with water, and it will be unclean till evening. When a man lies with a woman and there is an emission of semen, both must bathe with water, and they will be unclean till evening. (Lev 15:16-18)
Notice verse 18 deals with seminal emission during sexual intercourse, but verse 16 is speaking of a seminal emission that does not occur as a result of intercourse. If this is indeed a reference to masturbation, the matter-of-fact way in which God deals with this matter certainly indicates that no feelings of shame should be attached to it. He simply said, “Go take a bath.”
It seems to me that if God were really bothered by such a practice, then He missed a teachable moment here in this passage. Since He clearly condemns sexual intercourse between men in Leviticus 18:22 and says “that is detestable”, I think that if He had really wanted us to avoid this particular practice, He would at least have said something like “That is disgusting” instead of “Go take a bath.”
Masturbation has been around for a long time, and since God does not clearly condemn it, I would not be too bothered with it either. Masturbation is practice far more than adultery or fornication yet God is practically silent on the issue. This ought to tell you that God is not overly concern with it.
However, let me caution you against addiction to masturbation. Just like most things, masturbation can turn into an addiction. If you find yourself constantly—several times a day—masturbating then you can be reasonably sure that you have a sexual addiction. Paul said, “‘Everything is permissible for me’—but I will not be mastered by anything” (1 Cor 6:12). This includes masturbation. Also, you should never use pornography to masturbate, and if you are married, keep your thoughts on your wife. It is the same sin to make love to your wife while thinking about another woman as it is to masturbate while thinking about another woman. Concerning single people, I have no advice other than a prohibition to pornography.
If a believer uses masturbation to alleviate sexual temptation that’s far better than actually being tempted to commit fornication or adultery. I would rather have a man masturbate than go to a prostitute.
Another thought, if masturbation is sinful, then you would expect there to be bad health consequences to it, such as found in adultery, homosexuality, and fornication (diseases for one thing). Instead, research has found that masturbation serves to release sexual tension. If a man is prevented from having sexual release, then the seminal fluids can back up, causing increased sexual tension and physical discomfort. It also increases the risk of prostate inflammation. This might explain why priests who practice celibacy and who view masturbation as sinful have a higher rate of prostate cancer.
Since there are proven medical benefits to masturbation, it is difficult to make a biblical and reasonable case against it.
phiri
February 25, 2012 at 12:10 pm
Kunyengana kuwama imwee oooh oooh aaah aaah mwamuna namkazi Chris is busy masterbating ***** mbusa chona.
Pastor Chris wapa Zed
February 25, 2012 at 12:33 pm
Its not a sin yes my namesake is right,am avoiding HIV en STDs for doing this too!!!
joe
February 25, 2012 at 1:00 pm
Brethren, please be warned….when commenting on matters concerning Men of God such as Pastor chris or indeed many other men of God, we should all be careful not to make careless statements that will attract curses unto ourselves. If you do not heed this warning, do not cry when you are in trouble.
about the matter at hand, you need Spiritual maturity to understand this topic. when you replay the clip Tumfewko has attached to this article. you will see that Pastor Chris is clear about this matter. Tumfweko should also attach a clip where Pastor’s views on homosexuality are clearly mentioned. thank you @Pastor Paul Wise Lumbu for your comments. the thing is we are so judgmental and have classified anything we do not like as Sin instead of seeking God’s word on such matters. Please start going for bible study and watch Pastor Chris’ teachings on love world television , better still start getting yourselves copies of the rhapsody of realities book which is all over Zambia. Stay blessed.
Ken-dj
February 25, 2012 at 1:05 pm
Honestly speakin, the only way we can learn is to allow wise pipo teach us,anybody can mak an error,even a pastor.Plz men of God teach us.
victor
February 25, 2012 at 1:25 pm
It is sin please.
Be objective
February 25, 2012 at 2:34 pm
My husband is impotent, and my way out is masturbation. Those saying it’s a sin what’s your advice?
I also do
February 25, 2012 at 2:53 pm
I masturbate coz my husband has not had sex with me for 2 yrs coz he has a mistress and only comes home around 3am to change.
Musamba
February 25, 2012 at 5:05 pm
surely if ur lukn 4 the devil dnt 4get to luk in the puppit…remember we ought to glorify God with our bodies,en I dnt Think masturbation glorifies God in any way.
Biliva
February 25, 2012 at 5:10 pm
I beg all christians not to even waste time to debate! The Pastor error ed, full stop. These are very tricky times
mwewa
February 25, 2012 at 6:55 pm
what is Godly about masturbation really? if any man imagines sleeping with a woman he already sinned says the bible and if this is the case can someone tell me he/she masturbates without imagining the act of sex! masturbation in all respects is sin.
mwewa
February 25, 2012 at 6:55 pm
what is Godly about masturbation if i may ask? if any man imagines sleeping with a woman he already sinned says the bible and if this is the case can someone tell me he/she masturbates without imagining the act of sex! masturbation in all respects is sin.
bilken
February 25, 2012 at 9:08 pm
you cant masterbbate without imagining u r with awoman and the bible says if u luk at a woman lustifully u hav oredy commited adultery.
kokoko
February 26, 2012 at 7:55 am
aba bapastor is just justifying his habbit, what is lust kanshi?