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Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date
I met this girl some two weeks ago when I was with my brother,I got her number and I asked her to go and catch a movie at arcades on Friday, 16th, March..
When we were at the counter about to buy tickets, I got K100,000 Kwacha( in two 50 pin notes since two tickets were going at K60, 000 on Friday) from my wallet I gave the sales man and he handed me the change, to my surprise and embarrassment the new girl quickly grabbed the change that the sales man handed back to me.
The movie was to start in 30 minutes and so we sat to chill for the movie. She said she wanted to check out something in a boutique so we went in the boutique and worse still she picked a pair of shoes and told me she loved them and she wanted me to buy her the shoes that very moment.
I don’t know who if she’s a gold digger, but how can i describe this kind of a person? That was the first time we went out together on a date…. I didn’t buy her shoes though I felt bit guilty for not doing so.
what do you think about this kind of a person fellow bloggers?
TC, From Lusaka
Posted by
big Dhara
May 7, 2012 at 12:09 pm
School boy why are yopu complaning about your own decision to take a girl out and footing the bill?? if you didnt have the money why ask her out on a first time basis_ what did you think was going to happen?? Get free sex..No small boy!! Grow up and smell the coffee, you pay before you get laid!!Nxa!!
Slim
May 8, 2012 at 4:18 pm
Find somethiging interesting to right about what do you take bloggers on this blog grow up
dutty
May 10, 2012 at 10:00 am
That’s not right even if its being real or if you pay it will show, that chick has to now how to get independent and not depend on guys, that just shows what type of a family she comes from.
barotse meeeeeeeee
May 10, 2012 at 10:27 am
u would have just bought ha shows…she is a prosistute….at idigenous TONGA u are ****** az well….wen last did u go to arcades???u cant even read n undastand
Peso
May 11, 2012 at 11:09 am
Dull boy! You spent K70pin on a prostitute who didnt open leggs for you. Do you know that K70pin can buy u a bag of cement and mupene? Do prostitutes have time for watching movies in cenama halls? Come for lessons my boy!
Better believe it
May 11, 2012 at 12:44 pm
Any girl who behaves like that is not worth spending money on in the first place.
sylvester miles
May 14, 2012 at 11:48 pm
hahahahahahaha,,,cant stop laughing!
jigga1
May 19, 2012 at 8:41 am
silly boy you picked up a hooker!Taba fishiba ifya ma movie pa arcades baishiba fye-fula,bushe yaingila,wapwisha.
shark_kapenta
May 20, 2012 at 4:12 pm
butchhh kwena uli chikopo, kuti wafilwa ukwishiba izoba…..its a lesson to kids..elo maybe she just a spoilt kid,buh either way nga walimulilamofye.
Ernesto
May 24, 2012 at 3:07 pm
boi ,run run away for your bucks !!!!!!!
hhhh
May 29, 2012 at 12:19 pm
boy she will mikk u dry hahhaaaaa
malawa
May 30, 2012 at 3:16 pm
so wat if shez a gold digger…ain they all in some way
elnathan
May 31, 2012 at 10:25 pm
in exchnge 4a nyt i wuld she hott…bt ba guy u did da rity thin man
Picanine
June 1, 2012 at 5:55 am
Sometimes that is the cost of doing business. If she has moral character, she will pay you back, by treating you right. I am not talking about giving it up either. Treating you right while being a lady.
thandiwedaniels
June 12, 2012 at 3:46 pm
what!!!!!
Suck it real hard
June 12, 2012 at 4:03 pm
…pussy is expensive my boy u gotta pay b4 u get laid.
biggie smalls
June 13, 2012 at 12:05 pm
Gold diggers are smooth and play their cards right. they will string you along and make you comfortable before they start milking you. They make you so comfortable you begin to believe you cant do without them then they milk you for every cent you have for as long as they can. This girl is just a fluzzy who has been way too broke her whole life a movie and shoes seems like heaven. By her pop corn, promise her three pairs of shoes, bang her and delete her number. When she calls laugh into the phone and say you are aganist first date or even second date sex so it cant work out she must just 4get you.
SPICY
June 15, 2012 at 8:12 am
SHE ASKED FOR A LITTLE TOO MUCH 4 A FIRST DASTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>0_0
SPICY
June 15, 2012 at 8:13 am
SHE ASKED FOR A LITTLE TOO MUCH 4 A FIRST DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>0_0
MARK
June 20, 2012 at 2:35 pm
YOUNG MAN BUYING STAFF IN FIRST DATE DEPENDS ON YO GP, SO IF YOU THINK SHE’S A GOD DIGGER THEN YOU HAVE NOT DICIDED!!!!!
Thief Justice
June 21, 2012 at 9:09 am
Do not start things you cant finish!!
henry balase
June 21, 2012 at 11:13 am
I asked for sex on a first date from some gal, and DID. So why cant a gal ask for shoes on the first date. Just give her and ask her to open up in return. Ifintu nomba ni 50-50
Dre
June 22, 2012 at 10:23 am
Lil Boy!! You Gave Her The Impression not to worry bout your finances by taking her out to an expensive place what do you expect..? Of course it was a Lil too much but you flashed out cash in the first instance…so get her what she wanted Mr Big spender..coz yo 1st approach was “I’m money”…
maguys
June 27, 2012 at 11:50 pm
hmmm bring real issues to this fora not ma gong gong please
mupopo
June 28, 2012 at 9:55 am
ngoli wakaso ninshi uli wakaso. What is wrong in asking for shoes on a first date? men also do ask for sex on the first date.
kabuchende
July 9, 2012 at 3:28 pm
buy her the shoe ,then open her.thats the way we get by.
Balesa BaKulu
July 12, 2012 at 10:28 pm
In life every thing you do you pay for it. Love is expensive, the bible says for God so love the world so that He gave. so giving and love can not be divrced to each other if you love her Give whatever she asked. walira mvula walira Matope. be strong young Man this is love.
DIANA
July 13, 2012 at 1:07 pm
too soon.that is not love, but what you can give her good luck.
tomas samuel
July 14, 2012 at 9:42 pm
why didnt you let her buy her own ticket. You invited her and you are supposed to buy her a car and a house!
Jex
July 20, 2012 at 6:58 pm
What would you do if she asked for your services in bed on the first date?Am sure you wouldn’t deny.
KAYS
July 21, 2012 at 4:18 pm
LOL>>******
Lucius
July 22, 2012 at 1:43 am
man gmme her number im go buy her the whole entire botiq. damn she beautiful but aint cool.qiuk, im waiting!
Cathy
July 24, 2012 at 2:17 pm
Y complain,a pair of shoes only and you are complaining, shame on you boy, grow, mwajaila vamahala,love na njala siviyendelana man.No wonder I spend on myself ad keep my pussy.Man wants free things,shame shame shamemmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.